Thursday, October 31, 2013

Honesty—Still the Best Policy by Martin Wiles

How could anyone cheat an elderly person? And simply to pad their pocket.

I was working my first job at Orkin Exterminating Company. Not my idea of the ideal job but all that was available at the moment. And it was paying my bills. Shortly after starting, I was transferred from spaying the insides of houses to treating the underneaths. This was even more distasteful. But when I was called to install a moisture barrier under an elderly lady’s home and was choked by the dust I encountered, my attitude deteriorated even more. How could a salesperson sell an elderly person something they obviously didn’t need? Honesty was definitely not his policy. Making money was.

Wise King Solomon warned against dishonesty. Don’t cheat your neighbor by moving the ancient boundary markers; don’t take the land of defenseless orphans (Proverbs 23:10 NLT).

Honesty is a reflection of character, and character is who I honestly am. Character involves the traits I display on a regular basis. It demonstrates what I value and don’t value. My character will be reflected in my actions, the goals I set, my attitudes, and the relationships I choose.

Honesty also exhibits integrity. When my character is what it should be, integrity will follow. Integrity is doing the right thing…all the time…whether no one is looking or even if everyone is gazing. Honesty in character leads to integrity. I may put down the moisture barrier because my job requires it, but I’ll begin searching for another job…which I did.

Honesty reflects Jesus’ nature. And after all, he’s the one I should model my life after. Jesus displayed honesty and confronted dishonesty.

When I demonstrate honesty, God will honor my life and my efforts and send blessings my way. It always has been—and always will be, the best policy.

Prayer: Father in heaven, prompt us to exercise honesty in every action, thought, and attitude.

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Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Misplaced Focus by Martin Wiles

Some days no matter how much I squint and rub, they just won’t focus.

I’ve been wearing glasses since I was elementary age. My eyes have grown progressively worse and didn’t stabilize until I reached my 40’s. They are still changing slightly, but for the most part they are what they are. But some days the blurriness rushes in. No doubt because I’ve looked at the computer screen too long, graded too many papers, or didn’t get enough sleep. My focus isn’t always what I wish it was.

Neither was the focus of the crowd who witnessed the early apostles heal a crippled man. When the crowd saw what Paul had done, they shouted in their local dialect, “These men are gods in human form!” (Acts 14:11 NLT) Instead of turning to the One who gave them power to perform the miracle, they got caught up in the moment and attributed divine powers to the apostles.

I’ve concluded—based on what God’s Word teaches, that my focus should always be centered on what glorifies God. Glorify is one of those slippery religious words that’s variously defined. I choose to define it as putting the spotlight on God. Jesus taught that the purpose of my carrying out good works was that others might see them and in turn glorify the Father...shine the spotlight on him.

I should also focus on whatever enables me to fulfill God’s plan and purpose for my life. Doing this will eliminate many of my side trips into areas I have no business traveling. And it will also help me fulfill the Acts 1:9 commission: to go into the entire world telling about Christ’s love.

Only with God’s help can I regain and maintain my focus. Are you focused in?

Prayer: Eternal God and Master, keep our focus clear so our work for You will be successful and pleasing in Your sight.

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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Praying God’s Will for Others by Martin Wiles

When I think about mine, it sometimes appears pretty selfish.

I have a general daily prayer list. While I don’t adhere rigidly to it, for the most part my prayers follow this schedule. Occasionally, I pause to consider who is benefiting most from these prayers. Are they all about me, my family, my wishes, and my wants, or am I interceding more for others than I am concentrating on me? After all, I’m human and tend to be a little selfish. If I’m not careful God can become the big Santa Claus in the sky.

Jesus, on the other hand, spent more time praying for others and praying that God would strengthen him to do what he sent him to do. I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message (John 17:20 NLT).

If I’m to pray God’s will for others, I must first love God supremely. Anything less will keep my focus mainly on me. And after all, Jesus says to do this is the greatest commandment. When my vertical relationship is in order, my horizontal ones will be also.

Praying God’s Word for others also means the love I have for others must extend beyond superficiality. It should be sacrificial. I must love them as I do myself—and I will gladly sacrifice for me. “How can I serve you?” should be my continual mindset when dealing with others.

And praying God’s will for others further means I genuinely desire that they realize God’s purpose and plan in their lives. If something good happens for them, I won’t be jealous and ask, “Why didn’t You do this for me, God?”

Are you guilty of praying God’s will only for you? Why not include someone else in your prayers each day?

Prayer: Enable us, dear merciful Lord, to realize that life isn’t solely about us. It must include others.

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Monday, October 28, 2013

Chili and Beans by Michelle Wiles



Ingredients
1 SMALL BAG DRIED PINTO BEANS
          
1 ½ LB. GROUND CHUCK

1 TABLESPOON CHILI POWDER

1 LARGE ONION (DICED)

1 CAN ROTEL

1 CAN TOMATO PASTE

½ TEASPOON SALT

½ TEASPOON PEPPER

¼ TEASPOON GARLIC

1 BELL PEPPER (DICED)


 Directions
SOAK BEANS OVERNIGHT IN COLD WATER IN REFRIGERATOR.

WHEN READY TO COOK, COVER THE BEANS WITH WATER AND COOK FOR 3 HRS OR UNTIL TENDER.

BROWN BEEF AND ADD ONION AND PEPPER.

COOK UNTIL TENDER.

ADD SEASONING AND CHILI POWDER ALONG WITH ROTEL AND TOMATO PASTE.

SIMMER 30 MINS.

ADD PINTOS AND SIMMER.
 
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Who Am I by Martin Wiles

Oscar Wilde said, “Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation.”

I, on the other hand, didn’t care too much what others thought when I was struggling through adolescence. Since I was a preacher’s kid, my peers and the adults at my father’s church had a set of expectations for me. Among them what the length of my hair, the style of my dress, the words proceeding from my mouth, and the peers I hung around with should be.

Like other adolescents, I was grappling to discover my identity. Was I supposed to follow in my father’s footsteps? Should I run with the crowd? Or did God have something else in mind? But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead (Ephesians 2:4-5 NLT).

What I discovered is that what I do isn’t nearly as important as who I am. Sin isn’t a popular subject or perhaps even a politically correct term, but God says I’m dead in it. I’m a walking dead man and powerless to do anything about it.

Fortunately, the news isn’t altogether bad. I can be a walking alive man when I acknowledge my sins and plead for Christ’s forgiveness which was made possible through his sacrifice on Calvary’s cross. While I’m alive now, entering that relationship makes me more alive than I’ve ever been. My past is immaterial. Mine’s not as sordid as some, but I do have a host of things I’ve done, said, or thought that I’m not proud of. Christ’s forgiveness removes the penalty…once and for all.

I no longer have to struggle with who I am. I’m God’s child. Are you?

Prayer: Thank You Lord Jesus for making us new creations and for taking away all our sins.

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Saturday, October 26, 2013

Never Too Bad to Love by Martin Wiles

My parents cautioned me about it over and over again—especially my dad.

When I became a middle schooler, my parents began to warn me about whom I hung around with. “Bad company corrupts good moral,” they would say. While both my parents were Christians, my dad was a fundamentalist (I know because he proudly proclaimed himself as one.). So my young life was filled with rules and regulations—warning me of particular behaviors considered off-limits and against associating with those who would tempt me to consider those behaviors. And there were even a few years when they sent me to private schools hoping I would meet a better quality of peers.


But Jesus…he hung around with the very types of people my parents warned me against. Tax collectors and other notorious sinners often came to listen to Jesus teach (Luke 15:1 NLT).

Most of Jesus’ time was spent hanging around with those others didn’t want anything to do with…those with dreaded diseases…those with immoral lifestyles…those who lived on the wrong side of the tracks. Jesus knew well people didn’t need a doctor…sick people did. People sick with the effects of sin. No one was too bad for Jesus to love. Nor should they be for me. He loved me when I was undeserving, and I must love others.

Through my experiences with others and because of my human nature, it’s easy to develop prejudicial attitudes and stereotypes. Jesus’ nature of pure love prevented these from developing in his life, and with his love flowing through me I too can put them aside.

While no one is too bad for me to love, I must be careful that I’m always the influencer rather than the influenced. Jesus always influenced…but he was never influenced. Is there anyone or group that you’ve labeled, “Too bad to love?”

Prayer: Father, may we always love others with the same love that we’re loved.

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Friday, October 25, 2013

Beyond Control by Martin Wiles

When the news came, I knew the situation was beyond my control.

I moved to the Upstate of South Carolina in the early 1980s, and jobs were scarce. I had vowed never to work in
a textile mill again.

Unfortunately, this was about the only place hiring. But they too were experiencing the effects of imports and a slowing economy. I was transferred from plant to plant. Then came the day when there was nowhere else to transfer me, and I heard the word no one likes to hear: layoff.

Many situations in life are beyond my ability to control. Jesus’ disciples found themselves in one when they encountered a fierce storm. Jesus was sleeping at the back of the boat with his head on a cushion. The disciples woke him up, shouting, “Teacher, don’t you care that we’re going to drown?” (Mark 4:38 NLT)

Stormy situations may be out of my control, but they’re never out of God’s control. He’s the sovereign of the universe and of my life. Not only does he have a worldwide plan but he also has a unique plan for my life. While Satan may hurl a few storms my way as I travel life’s seas, none will careen me off the course God intends unless I choose to let them.

Stormy circumstances stretch my faith as it did the disciples. Unfortunately, it was only after they had exhausted all their efforts to help themselves that they then turned to Jesus. I’ve made the same mistake. I tend to handle what I can when the best method is consulting him in the beginning.

Through the storms of life, I’ve witnessed God’s care and concern. My duty is not to question the storms but simply to trust God to see me through them. Are you trying to endure life’s storms in your own strength?

Prayer: Thank You Sovereign God for not allowing the storms of life to blow us off Your course for us. We ask for strength to endure and trust.

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Thursday, October 24, 2013

Accepting God’s Will by Martin Wiles

When it’s easy or suits my purposes, I normally don’t buck it. But when it goes against my grain and costs me? Well…

There have been many occasions when I’ve struggled to discover God’s will. But there have also been times when I knew what God wanted and was simply not overjoyed about doing it. Such as the time I knew he wanted me to resign my leadership position when I had nothing in tow. Like Abraham, my wife and I walked blindly into the unknown.


Eli the priest couldn’t control his sons who were dishonoring God with disobedient behavior. He failed to punish them, so God stepped in. When God revealed this message through Samuel, Eli responded, It is the LORD’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best (I Samuel 3:18 NLT).

Accepting God’s will requires that I first believe he has a unique plan for my life and is actually interested in the directions I take. And he does and is. He’s my Father, and I’m his child. Good parents are always interested in helping their children.

Believing God can see into the future I can’t also makes it easier to accept his will. I can only see the moment, but God is present in the future I haven’t experienced yet. Thus he can give me wise direction whether or not it seems so to me. It may not even make logical sense.

Accepting God’s will always takes me farther spiritually than I am presently. Obeying his plans means walking by faith—not sight. This is scary, but it builds my trust in him as my sole Provider and Sustainer.

And when I accept God’s will, it honors him. I receive peace, and others see God more clearly through my life.

Have you accepted God’s plan for your life?

Prayer: Gracious God, give us courage to go where You lead even when You guide us through valleys deep.

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Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Expect the Best by Martin Wiles

She was a shut-in; he was her only son. And they were both pessimists.

The Carsons* attended a church I pastored. The mother had been a shut-in for a number of years. The son had suffered a failed marriage some years before and lived with his mother most of the time since then. He farmed, but hadn’t worked a secular job in quite some time. Most of their income came from Mom’s social security check. Visiting with them always caused me to need an optimism pill when I left. Nothing ever went their way…ever. And they didn’t mind sharing the stories of their never-ending unfortunate circumstances.

Negativism is somewhat like farming. If I sow negative thoughts and words, I’ll reap a harvest of the same—and spread it to others. Remember this—a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. But the one who plants generously will get a generous crop (II Corinthians 9:6 NLT).

I can expect the best because I’m God’s child. My life events are controlled by a loving and sovereign Being with whom I’m intimately affiliated. They’re not random nor are they controlled by fate or some other force.

I can expect the best because my Savior has good and wholesome plans for me. He has no thoughts of hurting me or making my life miserable. Rather, he wants me to prosper and enjoy the abundant life he offers.

I can also expect the best because I know—regardless of how my circumstances might appear, that he is working behind the scenes to conform my thoughts, words, and actions to the image of Christ. This knowledge helps me stay positive even through trials and temptations. He is preparing me for eternity with him.

Has negativism taken over your life? If so, expect God’s best and be positive.

Prayer: Help us, merciful Father, to sow positive seeds so we might reap a similar harvest.
*Names changed to protect the privacy of the individuals.

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Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Benefits of Belonging by Martin Wiles

He loved to stray, and it often got him in predicaments.

I once owned a stubborn rooster who loved to stay outside his pen more than he loved to stay in it. But when it was feeding time, all I had to do was open the gate and he headed for the chicken yard. While he was able to eat bugs, insects, and grass on the outside, what he didn’t realize is that his most nutritious meals were on the inside. And though he didn’t appreciate the confinement of the chicken wire, it provided him safety from predators. He simply didn’t understand the benefits of belonging.

Sometimes I too forget the advantages of belonging. And Jesus has to remind me. After he has gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow him because they know his voice (John 10:4 NLT).

By belonging to Christ, I’ve inherited a great big family made up of different denominations, races, nationalities, and personalities. But we all have one thing in common: Christ’s blood has secured our forgiveness. Family is important, and they care for one another.

Since I belong to Christ, I also have a caregiver. I may receive comfort from my family, but no one can give me the perfect comfort my Savior can. Even in the worst of times, he whispers, “Don’t be afraid. I’m in control.”

Because I belong to Christ, I can enjoy life’s best. The best may not be in power, possessions, or popularity, but it’s a quality of life I couldn’t enjoy apart from him.

Belonging to Christ also gives me the privilege of discerning his voice. Just as my rooster recognized mine and headed for the pen when it was feeding time, so I can know my Savior’s guiding voice.

Are you enjoying the benefits of belonging?

Prayer: Thank You, Great Shepherd, for guiding us into Your flock and providing for all our needs.

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Monday, October 21, 2013

Corn Chowder by Michelle Wiles

 
Ingredients
1 TABLESPOON BUTTER
             
1 CAN POTATOES (DRAINED AND SLICED)

1 CUP DICED HAM

2 CUPS MILK

1 CAN CORN (DRAINED)

1 CAN CREAM CORN

1 CAN CHICKEN BROTH

SALT/PEPPER

Directions
COMBINE IN CROCK POT.

COOK ON LOW FOR 2 HRS.

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Decisions, Decisions by Martin Wiles

I face them every day. Some I give little thought to, but others I make only after great deliberation.

My life has been filled with decisions. Enough to fill a book. Many of them minor, but quite a few major. I decided to get out of bed this morning and go to work. I could have kept sleeping, but I would have had to call in and tell a lie in the process. I would have lost one of my vacation days and possibly my job if the truth was discovered. A somewhat minor decision, but one that could have negative repercussions.

Moses had some tough decisions as well. He was leading a cantankerous group of people through the wilderness toward the Promised Land, but there was no end to their complaining. Then Moses cried out to the LORD, “What should I do with these people? They are ready to stone me (Exodus 17:4 NLT)!”

The question I ask myself is, “What do I base my decisions on?” Do I base them on my emotions? If so, I’m in trouble. God created all of my emotions, so they are healthy in and of themselves. But they are also very fickle and change regularly and rapidly. One occurrence can take me from happy to angry.

I can also make decisions based on my interests. This may be acceptable if my interests are aligned with God’s plan for my life at a particular time. Otherwise, interest-based decisions can take me down paths of disobedience. Since I constantly do battle with my fleshly nature, this can happen very easily.

So what should I base my decisions on? Prayer, the principles of God’s Word, and the direction of his Spirit. Are you allowing God to help you make the major as well as the minor decisions of life?

Prayer: Eternal Father, may our decisions be made only after we’ve consulted You.

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Saturday, October 19, 2013

What Grace Brings by Martin Wiles

I’m a recipient of it every day. And while I don’t deserve it, it’s doled out in huge scoops.

I woke up this morning and was still living on planet earth, breathing fresh air, able to get up out of bed, walk, and take care of my responsibilities. I didn’t do anything to deserve such rich blessings, but God chose to give them anyway. That’s grace. Lying beside me was the most beautiful woman in the world who loves me with all her heart. I don’t deserve her, but God gave her to me anyway. And that’s grace. I have two healthy children and one robust grandchild who love me. I don’t deserve them, but God gave them nevertheless. That’s grace. Every good aspect of my life is because of God’s grace.

Grace defined is undeserved favor—in this case from God, and it is revealed to all who will accept it. For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people (Titus 2:11 NLT).

The most important thing God’s grace has delivered to me is salvation. When I recognized my sins needed forgiving and that they were separating me from a loving relationship with God, I asked him for forgiveness. And he granted it. No questions asked. I didn’t deserve it, but he gave it nevertheless.

God’s grace also leads to my right living. Even though I’m forgiven, I still do battle with temptations to live against God’s will. Remembering what Christ has done for me encourages me to show my appreciation by obeying his commands.

Additionally, God’s grace gives me future hope. I’m delivered now and will be throughout eternity. I have an eternal home free of tears, pain, misery, death, sorrow, and every form of sin.

If you haven’t experienced God’s grace, why not ask for it today?

Prayer: Thank You, eternal God, for allowing us to experience and enjoy what we don’t deserve.

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Friday, October 18, 2013

Claiming God’s Promises by Martin Wiles

I made several promises when I said “I do,” and I sincerely intend to keep them.

I promised my wife I would love her forever—“until death do us part.” I’m presently keeping this promise and intend to continue doing so. Our days together grow sweeter, and our love changes as it deepens into a more intimate relationship. I promised to love her in good times and in bad.  And we’ve had our share of both. The good times we enjoy, and the bad times draw us closer together and strengthen our bond. I also promised I’d stick by her in sickness and health. She’s experienced both, and I’m still standing by her side.

God made some promises to Abraham and his children—of which I’m one through my connection with Christ. For he made this promise to our ancestors, to Abraham and his children forever (Luke 1:55 NLT).

God promises to—and does, love me unconditionally. Living in a society where work is rewarded with pay and extreme effort with trophies, makes this trait of God difficult to digest. I don’t have to do anything to make God love me nor can I do anything to make him stop loving me. I can offend him with sinful actions, but his love is constant.

God also promises to save me eternally when I trust in and ask for the forgiveness his Son purchased on Calvary. I’m his child now and will be forever. Nothing I can do, say, or think will cause him to ever turn me away.

Furthermore, God promises to abide with me daily and continuously. He fulfills this promise by giving me the presence of his Holy Spirit when I trust him as my Savior. Through the Spirit, he gives me guidance, wisdom, teaching, and comfort.

Have you claimed the promises of God?

Prayer: Loving God, thank You for wonderful promises. May we claim them with confidence.

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Thursday, October 17, 2013

Does God Really Care? by Martin Wiles

I’ve never questioned God’s love and care, but I’ve sauntered through many a life situation when it was tempting.

As I watched my father lie in a hospital bed fighting for his life, I could have questioned God’s concern. But I didn’t. Or when my wife and I fail to sell as much at our antique booth as some other vendors, it’s tempting to say, “What’s up with this God?” But we don’t. Or when my wife wakes me up crying from the pain of a kidney stone and we wind up in the hospital, I’m tempted to question God’s care. But I don’t.

Even though the disciples knew where Jesus was, they wondered if he cared that they were about to be submerged in turbulent waters. Jesus was sleeping at the back of the boat with his head on a cushion. The disciples woke him up, shouting, “Teacher, don’t you care that we’re going to drown (Mark 4:38 NLT)?”

God is continually near me even when I don’t feel his presence. I’m normally reminded of this after I’ve passed through my storm rather than when I’m in the middle of it. In fact, his footprint impressions appear more imbedded when he walks with me through trouble.

God is also omniscient. What appears to me to be a lack of concern on his part is due to the fact that I don’t have all the information and can’t see the future as he does. He is always working in my favor whether it appears so or not. I may not understand the storm, but he does.

No human relationship can give me the love and concern my Savior can. He is always with me and will never fail or forsake me. Are you experiencing God’s care?

Prayer: Thank You merciful Lord for continually caring for our needs and for always standing by our side.

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Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Like a Thief by Martin Wiles

Famous Japanese Admiral, Isoroku Yamomoto, said, “I fear all we have done is to awaken a sleeping giant.” And his enemy, American President Franklin Roosevelt, said of December 7, 1941, that it was “a date which will live in infamy.”

Until September 11, 2001 when the World Trade Center was destroyed by planes, the attack on Pearl Harbor was probably one of the greatest surprises in American history. More than 350 Japanese planes launched the attack, and by the end of the day over 2,000 people had been killed and America’s Pacific fleet heavily damaged. Currently, the United States of America is continuing to make preparations so she is never surprised like this again.

While there is no way to completely guard ourselves against enemy attack, anticipating it lessens the element of surprise and results in fewer casualties and less destruction. But there is one surprise that shouldn’t be, and there is only one way to prepare for it. For you know quite well that the day of the Lord’s return will come unexpectedly, like a thief in the night (I Thessalonians 5:2 NLT).

Some may think a two thousand year old unfulfilled promise is of little worth, but I beg to differ. I anticipate the return of Christ just as much as first century Christians did. That he is waiting so long demonstrates his patience and desire that all turn to him in repentance.

Christ’s coming won’t be a surprise for believers—though the appearance itself will be, but it will seize unbelievers by surprise because they are unprepared. His coming will ensue a great separation between those who have and have not accepted his forgiveness.

Have you prepared to meet the Savior of the world? If not, turn to him in repentance today and accept his forgiveness for your sins.

Prayer: Merciful Savior and soon returning King, we anticipate Your arrival and our eternal dwelling with You.

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Tuesday, October 15, 2013

A Touch of Encouragement by Martin Wiles

Like many people, I want mine shortly after my feet hit the floor in the morning. Without it, my morning doesn’t seem to proceed as smoothly.

I love coffee. I suppose I inherited my adoration from my paternal grandparents since neither of my parents were coffee drinkers. Nothing compared to an early afternoon cup of coffee as we sat in the den discussing family, religious, and political occurrences. But some would say I’m not a true coffee drinker because my cup of coffee must be prefaced with sugar and cream...enough to take away the bitterness. These added ingredients encourage me to drink the java which in turn makes my mornings brighter. 

Words of encouragement have the power to do the same thing. Let us think of ways to motivate (encourage) one another to acts of love and good works (Hebrews 10:24 NLT).

Giving encouragement is challenging. I find it easier to focus on the negative rather than the positive. And it seems I’m not alone. Most of what I hear on any given day—whether on the news or in conversation, is negative. But something positive infuses a bit of fresh air. The world is bombarded by discouraging news, so it’s my duty to stem the flow as much as possible.

Encouraging others improves my attitude as well as the other person’s. Negativism breeds negativism, but optimism is just as contagious. When I ponder positive scenarios, it leads to an entirely different outcome.

When I encourage, I transfer to others what God has done and is doing for me. His words are always encouraging, and his directives—even when they contain a negative element, aim for a positive outcome.

While giving encouragement takes effort, doing so builds self-esteem and optimism in me and others. Who can you encourage today?

Prayer: God of all creation, prod us to spread encouragement to everyone we come in contact with.

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Monday, October 14, 2013

Grace And Passion For The Lost by Martin Wiles

Romans 9:1-13; 30-33
Introduction:
A. This begins a two chapter section in which Paul deals with the nation of Israel: what God has done in their past as well as what part-if any, they still occupy in the future plan of God.


B. Some eschatological interpretations have all the Jews-or at least most of them, alive during the millennium being saved. Thus God will not ultimately reject those they still consider his people but his people set aside at the present time which is the age of the Gentiles.

C. In the midst of this discussion, Paul also deals with some other thorny issues, like election. He gives examples of how God has chosen some people over others, seemingly even before they were born.

D. But woven throughout the section is Paul’s concern for those who are lost-the same concern all believers should have.

E. Paul had experienced the grace of God in a marvelous way, and because he had been a recipient, he wanted others to be as well.

I. Paul’s Grief Over Unbelief (vv. 1-5)
A. Our grief over the lost.
1. All of us can probably testify that we have loved ones, maybe even spouses or children, who do not know Christ as their Savior.
2. While it pains us over any person who is lost, knowing those close or related to us are is even more devastating.
3. If death overtakes them before they repent, it is even more painful, for our theological belief then reminds us we will never see them again. There will be an eternal separation from us just as it will be from God.
4. We often comfort ourselves by hoping they have made a last minute decision in their heart and mind that we are not aware of.
5. My maternal grandfather fell into this category. Though he attended church regularly, there was no evidence in his lifestyle he had ever trusted Christ. Prior to his death, he had many strokes which continued to incapacitate him, finally leading to his inability to talk or walk. My dad would talk to him about his spiritual state and his blue eyes would fill with tears, but we had no way of knowing whether or not he ever made life’s most important decision.

B. Paul’s grief over his lost kinsmen. (vv. 1-3)
1. Paul states his heart is filled with bitter sorrow and unending grief for his people who have rejected Christ.
2. While the Romans actually put Jesus to death, it is very evident the religious leaders were the ones who instigated the crowd to cry out for his crucifixion.
3. They were jealous of the crowds who followed Jesus-many of whom had previously been their followers.
4. They saw many of Jesus’ actions as breaking of the Law of Moses.
5. His claim to forgive sins was heresy in their minds and an act of equating himself with God whom he claimed to be-another matter that infuriated them.
6. Nor did they accept the proposition he had been resurrected from the grave.
7. Much of their unbelief lay in their misinterpretation of Old Testament scripture which they believed pointed to a Messiah who would deliver his people from their oppressors not die on a cross.
8. As Paul viewed so many of his brethren continuing to reject his message, it grieved him intensely.
9. He even went so far as to propose he would be willing to be cut off from God if it meant their salvation.
10.  The import of this statement is amazing. How many of you would be willing to give up your eternal place in heaven and go to hell if it meant someone you loved would be saved. In other words, would you give someone else your salvation and lose yours in the process?
11.  Paul was not simply making this statement but was honest in his willingness to do that very thing. While theologically impossible, the intent and passion are there.
12.  These people are not what we would consider blood kin with Paul but simply members of his own race. He was a Jew.
13.  Thus Paul was willing to trade his salvation not only for his blood kin but also for those of his own race. I think he would have done it for anyone.
14.  Interestingly, these are the same people who have harmed Paul physically and tried to destroy his ministry.
15.  The situation is similar to when Jesus asked the Father to forgive those who were crucifying him because they didn’t know or understand what they were doing.
16.  Paul’s intense concern over his lost kinsmen reminds us of something John would write; “If anyone says, ‘I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who hates his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen.” (I John 4:20)

C. Privileges that should have driven the Jews to Christ (vv. 4-5)
1. As we think about the privileges the Jews had that should have made it very simple for them to trust Christ but who did not, we think of the many who have been exposed to Christianity-and who have even lived in a Christian nation, but who continually reject the love of Christ.
2. What were the privileges of the Jewish people? God had selected them from all the people on earth and entered into a covenant with them. He sent Abraham to the land that would become the Promised Land and their home. Through Abraham, he made a great nation of the Jews and performed mighty works in their life. He selected them above the Egyptians through the plagues, delivered them from slavery, dried up the Red Sea for them to cross over, destroyed the Egyptian army, gave them his Law and provided for their needs throughout the wilderness wanderings. He returned them to the Promised Land and allowed them to expel the pagan inhabitants. He gave them every opportunity to fulfill his plan and purpose which was to be a light to the nations, but many of them failed.
3. When the time came for God to send his Son into the world, he even sent him of Jewish heritage. He came unto his own, and his own received him not. (John 1:11)
4. None of the privileges, however, made it possible for Jews to come to Christ in a different way than the Gentiles. The way has always been, and will always be, faith.

D. Not all Jews are true Jews (vv. 6-13)
1. Since it is evident not all Jews are children of God-made evident by their rejection of Christ, has God failed in his promise to make them his children?
2. Of course not. The promise was always contingent on belief, and not all believed.
3. Had Abraham not trusted God in faith, he would never have become the father of the faithful.
4. True Jews, or true children of Abraham, are not just his biological descendants. In fact, many of his biological descendants are not children of God or true Jews as Paul defines them.
5. Remember what Paul has already said; “A true Jew is one whose heart is right with God.” (2:29)
6. And again, “The real children of Abraham, then, are all those who put their faith in God.” (Galatians 3:7)
7. As proof of his apology, Paul appeals to the example of Abraham and Sarah and their children Isaac and Ishmael.
8. Isaac was the son of promise while Ishmael was the son engineered by the impatience of Sarah and the reluctant consent of Abraham.
9. After the mistake, God told Abraham, “Do not be upset over the boy (Ishmael) and your servant wife. Do just as Sarah says, for Isaac is the son through whom your descendants will be counted.” (Genesis 21:12)
10.  Abraham had descendants by Ishmael but they were not the true descendants of faith or the ones through whom the promise to bless all nations through Abraham would come. Nor were they in the line through which the Messiah would be born.
11.  Similarly, not all who are born of the Jewish race are true Jews and in fact a true Jew does not have to be of Jewish heritage at all.
12.  Isaac was the son of promise, and only those who follow his example of faith as well as Abraham’s have access to God and God’s promise of salvation.
13.  Paul also appeals to Isaac’s family. He married Rebekah who became pregnant with twins. Before they were born, she was told of a normally backwards set of events. The younger would serve the older. Jacob was chosen over Esau. Jacob became a man of faith while Esau didn’t have time for it.

II. Our Passion Must Include The Correct Message (vv. 30-33)
A. God accepts us by faith.
1. Even though the Gentiles were not seeking God, those who came to him came by faith.
2. The Jews who tried so diligently to get to God by obedience to the Law discovered that was not the way either. They too had to come by faith.
3. They stumbled over the very way God designed to bring them to himself.
4. To prove this, Paul quotes a passage in Isaiah 28:16.
5. The rock they stumbled over was Jesus, and they did this by rejecting him as God’s means to their salvation.

B. What causes us to stumble over Christ?
1. Salvation by faith regardless of works doesn’t make sense to some.
2. God for them should be a grandfatherly type who in the end will overlook their sin.
3. Salvation requires humility and offends our pride, and some don’t want to come that way.
4. Obedience is required, and some want to go their own way and do their own thing.

Conclusion:
A. Ask God to give you a passion for those who don’t know him as well as opportunities to share your faith and the wisdom to know how.

B. Our message must always include the way of faith for this is the only way to approach God and know forgiveness of our sins.

Sowing and Reaping by Martin Wiles

GALATIANS 6:7-10
INTRODUCTION
I recall the time when my daughter was assigned a science project. We called around for some ideas on what to do. We decided that we would try to prove whether or not a nail could be protected from rust. On a particular day, we coated one nail with paint, dipped another in engine oil and sprayed a third with WD-40. The fourth nail we left unprotected. We hung these nails on a piece of string and placed them outside for about ten days. During this time, we had all types of weather. Finally, on the tenth day, we went out to see the results. The unprotected nail had of course rusted. The one sprayed with WD-40 only had a small amount of rust. The other two had no signs of rust.


For this project to be truly scientific, it must be repeatable. In other words, if you performed the experiment the same way we did under the same conditions, you should get the same results. Science has to do with cause and effect and with repeatable situations. It concerns the laws of nature and how they operate. The universe itself operates according to these rules. If it did not, science would not exist.

Paul also speaks of cause and effect in these verses. He gives one of the great moral absolutes of the world. What we sow we will reap. This is true in the physical aspect and the spiritual. How does this matter of sowing and reaping fit into our lives today?

I. SOWING IS IMPORTANT
Paul tells us not to be deceived because God is not mocked. What we sow we will reap, and what we want to sow are things that are good. Deceived means to lead astray. Paul was in part calling on the Galatians not to be led astray by such people as the Judaizers. They tried to trick the Galatian Christians into believing that they had to obey the Mosaic ceremonies and laws of the Old Testament for salvation. Paul said it was only through the grace of Jesus Christ and our faith in him that salvation came. There is nothing we can add to the free grace of Jesus.

We deceive ourselves if we think there is some other way to come to God than by Jesus Christ. We deceive ourselves if we think we can sin as Christians and get away with it. Through our sowing of what is good, we prove ourselves to be children of God. James wrote; “Prove yourselves doers of the word and not merely hearers who delude yourselves.” (1:22)

When people try to come to God some other way, it mocks the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. When Christians live in sin despite their forgiveness, it mocks God. Mocked carries the idea of turning our noses up at something as if to scorn or sneer. Believers are not exempt from this law of sowing and reaping. To live as if we are mocks God.

It is very important that the child of God sow what is good in their own personal lives and in the world they live in. The Bible says; “Those who plow iniquity and those who sow trouble harvest it.” (Job 4:8) On the other hand, those who sow good harvest good. We must follow the example of Jesus who sowed perfect righteousness and reaped eternal life. Through faith in him, we can do the same. When we sow faith in Jesus, we will never have to worry about reaping the consequences of our sin because Jesus paid for them. We will still have heartaches, sorrows, shame and wounds in this life, but when we sow faith in Christ we will reap eternal life. When we sow sin, God plants that feeling of guilt in us to point us back to the right way.

Believers should strive to sow good. Paul reminds us that while we have opportunity we should do good to all people, especially for our fellow brothers and sisters in the faith. Opportunity refers to the total opportunity we have during our earthly existence. We must work effectively and diligently to take every opportunity to sow for God's glory. The good that Paul speaks of is the moral and spiritual excellence that comes as a fruit of the Spirit. This good we speak with our mouths and perform with our hands. One of the best means to demonstrate the truth of our Christianity is to do good for others. This is also the best way to make others sit up and notice the genuiness of our faith. The Bible says; “In all things show yourself to be an example of good deeds with purity in doctrine, dignified, sound in speech which is beyond reproach.” (Titus 2:7)

It is important that we sow good to those who do not know Christ as Savior, but it is also vital that we sow good to those of the faith. How much we love other Christians is the acid test of how much we love God. The Bible reminds us; “We know that we have passed out of death into life because we love those of the faith.” (I John 3:14) Again; “If someone says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him, that the one who loves God should love his brother also.” (I John 4:20)

How important it is to sow good even from the earliest years of life. A person's character is formed very early in life. Allowing a child to have his own way will result in an adult that expects the same. Let us take every opportunity we have to sow good in this world.

II. VAIN PURSUITS WILL FAIL
Paul reminds us that the one who sows to his own flesh will reap corruption. The Christian has only two fields to sow in, the flesh or the Spirit. As previously mentioned, the flesh refers to the residence of sin that still resides in the believer. We are given power over it by God through the new nature he gives. However, we are all still subject to and do fall into sin periodically. If we sow to the flesh by pandering to the evil desires of it, we will reap the consequences. If we do not allow the Spirit of God to subdue these desires, this is exactly what will happen.

The particular sin Paul addresses was the sin of legalism as proposed to the Galatians by the Judaizers. Many of them were placing human works above the grace of God in Christ. They were turning back to their own resources and power.

The result is and was corruption. This refers to degeneration or going from better to worse. It was sometime used of decaying food. When a believer chooses to sin or sow to the flesh, corruption will result. We will lose the effectiveness of our testimony and fail to show forth the fruits of the Spirit that draw others to Christ.

John R. W. Stott, the British evangelical leader, wrote; “Every time we allow our mind to harbor a grudge, nurse a grievance, entertain an impure fancy, wallow in self-pity, we are sowing to the flesh. Every time we linger in bad company whose insidious influence we know we cannot resist, every time we lie in bed when we ought to be up and praying, every time we read pornographic literature, every time we take a risk that strains our self-control we are sowing, sowing, sowing, to the flesh.”

All vain pursuits of sowing to the flesh will end in failure.

III. SPIRITUAL PURSUITS WILL LEAD TO SUCCESS
The opposite of fleshly pursuits is spiritual pursuits. The results are also very different. The one who sows to the Spirit will reap eternal life. When we occupy ourselves with the things of God, we will produce the fruits of the Spirit in our life. We will also walk and live by the Spirit. We will abide in Christ and walk in him. We will do as the Bible instructs us to in giving our bodies as a living and holy sacrifice that is acceptable to God.

The product of spiritual pursuits is eternal life. This we receive as soon as we trust Christ as our Savior. This eternal life does not take away the warring battle that takes place on a daily basis, but it does point to a time when the battle will cease.

IV. ENCOURAGEMENT IS NEEDED
Sometimes it is easy to lose heart or become discouraged when doing good. Often, we are not rewarded by others for doing good. Paul reminds us that in due time we will reap our reward if we do not grow weary.

Serving the Lord does not take away problems, frustrations and even persecution for our faith. Paul was certainly evidence of that. Sometimes it may seem that we serve the Lord but see little evidence of the Lord's blessings. I am sure you have known Christians who served the Lord faithfully only to have a life filled with burdens. Sometimes the reaping is not immediate. The Puritan saint John Brown wrote; “Many Christians are like children; they would sow and reap the same day.”

Paul warns us not to grow weary or lose heart. We should not allow ourselves to get exhausted and give up. This is why it is so important that we encourage one another. The writer of Hebrews sets forth the example of Jesus in this matter. He wrote; “For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against himself, so that you may not grow weary and lose heart.” (12:3)

We must not be spiritually lazy. Not only must we talk about serving the Lord but we must also truly do it. Since it is so easy to get discouraged when we see little result of our work, we must encourage one another in the faith. In due time, we shall reap. We will receive our eternal blessing and reward.

Paul said; “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith; in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to all who have loved his appearing.” (II Timothy 4:7)

Let us encourage one another to sow in abundance and to sow what is good.

CONCLUSION
Ernest Hemingway was a great writer, but he was famous for snubbing his nose at morality and at God. He said his own life proved a person could do anything they wanted without paying the consequences. He considered the ideas of the Bible to be antiquated and outdated. They were useless to modern man. They were a hindrance to pleasure and self-fulfillment. Moral laws were a religious superstition that had no relevance. In a mocking parody of the Lord's Prayer, he wrote; “Our nada (Spanish for nothing) who art in nada.” However, the end of his life proved the folly of mocking God. His life of debauchery led him into such complete despair and hopelessness that he took a gun and put a bullet in his head.

Whatever a person sows, they will also reap. Let us remember that sowing what is good is very important. We must sow to the Spirit realizing that sowing to the flesh is very damaging. Knowing how disheartened we can get in our effort to do good, let us always encourage each other in the faith.


Vegetable Beef Soup


Ingredients
2 LBS STEW BEEF


5 POTATOES

3 CARROTS

1 ONION

2 CELERY RIBS

½ BELL PEPPER

1 CUP FROZEN BUTTER BEANS

2 TABLESPOON SUGAR

1 CAN CHOPPED OKRA

1 CAN ROTEL

1 CAN TOMATO SAUCE

1 CAN CORN

SALT/PEPPER

GARLIC


Directions 
COOK BEEF IN 1 ½ QUART WATER. MORE IF YOU NEED IT.


CHOP VEGETABLES.

WHEN BEEF IS TENDER ADD VEGETABLES (ADD CORN LAST) AND SEASONING.

SIMMER ON LOW FOR A WHILE.

SERVE WITH CORN BREAD.
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Blessings Poured Out by Martin Wiles

I stood at the front of the church waiting for parishioners to respond to the invitation. Suddenly my wife—with tear-filled eyes, stepped out and made her way toward the front, motioning for the pastor to pray with us.

You’d think we’d be accustomed to financial struggles after five years, but I’m not sure anyone ever adapts. Wondering how we’ll pay next month’s bills, worrying over how to put fuel in the tank, and pondering how we’ll handle unexpected expenses.

Presently my wife felt the need for our pastor to pray over our financial situation. So he did and concluded his prayer with, “Help’s on the way.” Imagine our surprise that evening when the associate pastor handed my wife a wad of money and said, “Someone told me to give this to you.” Two hundred dollars lay in our hands, and we immediately returned a portion to God.

A lifetime of experience has taught me the truth of what God said hundreds of years ago. “Bring all the tithes into the storehouse…If you do,” says the LORD of Heaven’s Armies, “I will pour out a blessing so great you won’t have enough room to take it in (Malachi 3:10 NLT)!”

I’ve learned that God controls my finances. When I’ve done all I can do, he always does more. I’ve also discovered that returning his portion keeps his blessings flowing to me. So I do—even when it doesn’t make sense. Even when the outgo is already greater than the income. Others can’t figure out how our budget balances, but my wife and I know. When I give joyfully, sacrificially, and regularly, God gives back. And it’s through the lean times that he builds my faith in his ability to supply all my needs.

Are you experiencing God’s blessings because of your financial faithfulness to him?

Prayer: Thank You Father for your promise to meet every need we have.

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Saturday, October 12, 2013

Life on the Other Side by Martin Wiles

I’ve forded a few swollen rivers. And though I haven’t enjoyed any of them, I’ve discovered there’s life on the other side.

Like many, I’ve crossed the river of broken relationships. Changes and heartaches like I’ve never experienced hounded me through the brokenness, but I struggled through. There have also been rivers of financial setbacks. Some of these I chose to cross by making bad decisions; others I was thrust into by other’s decisions. I’m still recovering from some of them, but the battle is less intense. Nor have I enjoyed the oceans of death. Losing parents, grandparents, and close friends is never easy, but eventually the grief and loneliness subside and life goes on.

By crossing these swollen creeks, I’ve come to appreciate more deeply the psalmist’s words. Give your burdens to the LORD, and he will take care of you. He will not permit the godly to slip and fall (Psalm 55:22 NLT).

I may wonder about the “why’s” of my circumstances, but I’ve learned not to literally ask the question. With experience, I’ve discovered the “why’s” are normally answered—if at all, only when I reach the other side and look back.

This much I’m sure of. God controls each river I traverse. Whether he actually sends me through or merely allows me to ford it is immaterial. He’s with me nevertheless. None of the rivers—no matter how swollen, will result in my demise unless I fail to trust him. My response is critical if faith and spiritual growth are to materialize.

God promises good will be engineered from each of these difficult crossings. My duty is simply to endure, trust, and learn. Indeed, life on the other side is always better.

Have you discovered the joy of life on the other side?

Prayer: Enable us to trust You, merciful Lord, to guide us across the rough seas to the peace of the other side.

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Friday, October 11, 2013

When the Son Shines In by Martin Wiles

I had cleaned them well, but then the sunlight shone through.

To supplement our income, my wife and I clean our church—a part of which involves cleaning the solid glass front entrance doors. As I went down my list of things to do, my wife reminded me about the front doors. I wiped them and was very proud of their appearance. Then came Sunday morning. As the sun’s rays penetrated the glass, streaks and smudges appeared. How was this possible? But I’ve cleaned many a glass only to have the sun’s rays reveal what was left behind.

One of the primary means that God speaks is through his Word. For the word of God is alive and powerful…It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires (Hebrews 4:12 NLT). When he does, what I often imagine as clean isn’t so sparkling after all.

My bad attitudes are revealed when the Son shines in. Attitudes of prejudice, anger, hypocrisy, and superiority. Attitudes that don’t fit who I am as God’s child. Attitudes that need re-adjustment. And the Son shining through his Word can accomplish it if I’ll allow him.

The piercing rays also reveal my sins of omission. Not the things I’ve done that I shouldn’t have, but the things I should have done but haven’t. Visiting a sick friend. Inviting a neighbor to church. Sharing my testimony with someone who is traveling some of the rough roads I’ve been down.

But the news isn’t all bad. Not only does the Son shine on my smudges and smears but he also gives me the power to change them. Power I don’t possess on my own but supernatural power that’s available from his indwelling Spirit.

What are the smudges the Son is revealing to you? Tap into his cleaning power and enjoy a sparkling reflection.

Prayer: Thank You merciful Lord for not only revealing our smears but for also giving us the power to wipe them away.

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