Showing posts with label sadness. Show all posts
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Monday, July 20, 2026

Conquering Depression - Martin Wiles

Conquering Depression
I lift my hands to you in prayer. I thirst for you as parched land thirsts for rain. Come quickly, Lord, and answer me, for my depression deepens. Psalm 143:6-7 NLT

Many people experience small bouts with it at winter’s onset; others do battle with it more often. 

SAD—or seasonal affective disorder—was first named by Norman Rosenthal and his colleagues at the National Institute of Mental Health in 1984. Symptoms include oversleeping, overeating, difficulty waking up, lack of energy, trouble concentrating, and withdrawing from friends, family, and social activities.

SAD and other types of depression can result from medical, self-inflicted, circumstance-related, or Satan-instigated sources. Conquering it is possible, but how?

Consult the proper Source. David’s present depression was circumstance-related and Satan-instigated. God anointed him as Israel’s king, but prior to assuming the role, he faced jealousy and life-threatening tactics from the sitting king. He found himself running for his life.

God is our ultimate emotional healer when we’re depressed. Our efforts toward restored health should include praying for guidance, searching his Word for comfort, socializing with those who share our beliefs, and confiding in trustworthy Christian acquaintances. When God directs—and when conditions warrant--we may need to visit a medical professional for counseling and/or medication.

Admit helplessness. Depression often brings with it feelings of “darkness” and confinement, as if lingering under an ominous cloud that neither dissipates nor delivers rain.

I’ve taken a few cave tours in my lifetime. While I enjoy pondering underground structures, one part makes me nervous: when the guide turns off the lights. What if they don’t come back, or what if the flashlight batteries die and he has no extras? Darkness is eerie; absolute darkness is nerve-racking.

David was a darkness expert. He slept in it as a young man while tending his father’s sheep, and he hid in it in a wilderness cave because a jealous king wanted him dead.

Helplessness isn’t easy to admit. We’re more likely to have an attitude of “There’s nothing I can’t conquer.” But like the addict who must confess their addiction before help can be effective, so conquering depression involves admitting to God we’re helpless to overcome without his assistance.

Examine our relationship with God. Charlie was a good girl. Although her father rarely darkened the church doors, her mother made sure she and her brothers attended. When a teenager, she accepted Jesus as her Savior at a church revival and after graduation married her high school sweetheart. They soon entered full-time Christian ministry.

But somewhere along the way, Charlie changed. Her love for church dwindled, and her new friends led her down roads taking her away from God. She began experimenting with sinful behaviors, which accelerated her downhill slide. Eventually, Charlie walked out on her family.

David once ventured into forbidden areas after becoming king and discovered what Charlie did: sin never delivers what it promises. He attempted to enjoy life with lies, sexual immorality, and murder—but inherited only depression and God’s discipline. 

Disobedience can be a major cause of a believer’s depression. Anytime we choose to walk away from God, an emotional struggle develops. If not quickly settled by confession and repentance, our emotional war will be lost to depression. Sin always takes us farther than we want to go, keeps us longer than we want to stay, and costs us more than we want to pay.

If depression threatens, start by taking it to God.

Father, draw me to you when the dark clouds of depression hover over me. 

*These issues vary greatly from individual to individual, so it's impossible to address every need. If you or someone you know suffers from mental illness, seek professional guidance.  


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Monday, December 23, 2024

The Fulfillment - Lynne Phipps

the fulfillment

But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law. 

~Galatians 4:4 NIV

Growing up, every Christmas ended the same way. My dad spoiled it. He was disappointed with what he did or didn't receive and sulked. He would get mad at something someone said, and an argument would ensue. Or the meal wasn't quite perfect, and the complaining would erupt. 

I came to dread Christmas day, waiting for his explosion. After waiting so long and anticipating the joy of Christmas, the actual day was anything but fulfilling.

How different the first Christmas must have been for Mary and Joseph when, in the fullness of time, God's Son came into their lives. Any discomfort or disappointment they may have felt about their lodgings or having to lay the babe in a lowly manger must have flown away after the shepherds' visit. Luke records, "But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart" (Luke 2:19 NIV).

The fulfillment of the promise, 
which the angel Gabriel spoke to her and God later revealed to Joseph in a dream, had come true: the Holy Spirit would come upon Mary, and the power of the Most High would overshadow her so that the Holy one to be born would be called the Son of God. A truth that the shepherds testified to for everyone they met. The babe, whom Gabriel had instructed the couple to name Jesus because he would save his people from their sins, had been born. 

What a gift and miracle. What a hope that lay within that tiny bundle of human flesh. What a fulfillment of God's promise from the beginning of time that a Savior would be born to set His people free from the bondage of sin. How Mary and Joseph's hearts must have rejoiced that first Christmas when they gazed upon the face of this one called Jesus.

Each of us may have plans for a perfect Christmas day this Christmas. But what will happen if those plans go awry? Will we experience disappointment, fulfillment, or even anger? Or, will we choose joy and embrace the truth of God's fulfilled promise, which still brings good news of great joy for all people? A Savior has been born. He is Christ the Lord, who still saves people from their sins today.

Find fulfillment and joy this Christmas, no matter what may go amiss or what might bring disappointment, anger, and emptiness. The choice is yours.


Lynne Phipps and her family live on a small hobby farm in the heart of Alberta, Canada’s farming country. She has been writing devotions for forty years and never tires of the spiritual correlation the Holy Spirit blesses her with. He uses normal everyday events and the behaviors of the multitude of glorious creatures He has brought across her path to point her to the truths of God. Lynne is a devotion writer for VineWords: Devotions and More.


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Saturday, March 4, 2017

Feeling Forgotten - Martin Wiles

Suddenly, the angel of the LORD appeared to him as a blazing fire in a bush. Exodus 3:2 NLT

The deed had been done—as ugly as it was, and now I was feeling forgotten.

Marital breakups are never easy. No matter who’s at fault, the breakup can leave each partner feeling forgotten. Mine did. My aloneness was intensified when suddenly many of my professional friends left too. Perhaps they didn’t know how to respond. Maybe they thought I needed time to gather my thoughts. Some may have been embarrassed to associate with me since our profession looked unfavorably on divorce. Only one or two checked to see how I was doing.  

I suppose Moses felt the same. When he killed an Egyptian who was beating one of his fellow countrymen, I imagine he thought he was doing the right thing. But when the king discovered the murder and placed a death sentence on him, he knew differently. 

Fleeing to the desert, he met a priest, married his daughter, and spent the next 40 years tending sheep. In a split second, Moses went from the palace to the poor house and from being surrounded by hundreds of people to hanging out with sheep. 

When feeling forgotten, I try to remember that feelings don’t always mimic reality. Moses had a spouse, children, father-in-law, and neighboring shepherds. I had community and church friends. I felt forgotten because my situation in life had changed and because a few had chosen to cool our friendship.

Even if others forsake me, God never will. He didn’t leave Moses, and he didn’t leave me when my spouse did. He was as near as He always had been. The feelings of loneliness were merely keeping me from feeling His presence. 

Though my situation made it difficult, I tried to surround myself with spiritual encouragers. People who would remind me of God’s promises, who would call periodically and check on me, and who would hug me and tell me everything was going to be okay. These people forged friendships I still cherish today—many years beyond my time of feeling forgotten. 

When you pass through times that make you feel forgotten, remember God is always near. 

Prayer: Father, when we feel forgotten by others, remind us You always walk by our side. 


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