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Friday, February 28, 2025

When Rejection Comes - Martin Wiles

When rejection comes
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don’t judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 NLT

He was a washed-up shoe salesman caught up in a town gossiping war.

In the Andy Griffith episode, Those Gossipin’ Men, Aunt Bee and a friend sat in the local drug store, enjoying a cool drink on a hot day. While spreading a little gossip among themselves, they were startled when a stranger came in and tried to sell them a pair of shoes. And surprised because he didn’t try extremely hard. In fact, they labeled him as the tamest shoe salesman they’d ever seen. He offered once, they said no, and he went on about his business. Little did he know a gossiping war between the ladies of the town and the men who hung around at Floyd’s Barber Shop would soon engulf him.

Prior to the salesman’s arrival, Andy had come into the drug store to get sulfur powder. Barney had cut his finger while cleaning his pistol. The cut was small, but several hours later, someone called the sheriff’s office to report that Barney had shot himself in the chest and was dead. When Aunt Bee and her friend hurried in to console Andy, they were surprised to see Barney still standing. That’s when Andy accused them of being the biggest gossipers in town.

The tame traveling shoe salesman gave Aunt Bee and her friend an opportunity to prove to Andy that just as much gossip came out of Floyd’s Barber Shop. So, when Andy and Barney asked who the stranger was, the two women planted a seed of doubt in their “conceited” male minds. They told Andy and Barney who the man claimed to be, but then questioned the man’s honesty. He didn’t seem eager to sell shoes.

Initially, Andy dismissed their suspicions and again accused them of spreading gossip. But then, he himself became suspicious. Before long, he and the other men in town had turned a washed-up shoe salesman into a New York City television producer. Soon, he and the other men in town gathered their sons and daughters, ushered them to the man’s hotel room, and had them audition for the traveling salesman. In the process, they buy numerous pairs of shoes—so much so that the failed salesman set a company record for a day’s sales.

The traveling salesman came to town a rejected mess, but left a success. Eliab knew a little about rejection too—as did all young David’s brothers. As they passed before Samuel—the prophet God had sent to their father’s house to select the next king of Israel—they each felt the sting of rejection. And imagine how much more humiliating the experience when they discovered God had chosen their younger sheep-tending brother.

Rejection in life is inevitable. We’ll be turned down for promotions, teams, dates, marriage proposals, jobs, projects, clubs, community organizations, assignments, book publishing. And we cannot deny that rejection hurts. Acceptance is one of our basic needs, but not every person will accept us. Nor will everything we attempt to do gain acceptance.

The good news is that while others may reject us or things we propose, God never will. God selected David because He knew David was a boy (and would later be a man) after God’s own heart. In that respect, nothing has changed. God accepts every person who wants to love and serve Him. No turning away. No turning down.

Life teaches us—often the hard way—that rejection is a part of our existence. But not as it relates to our walk with God. He always walks by our side. Nothing we do will drive Him away. Nothing we face will be so intense that He can’t walk us through it. And He will love and accept us…no matter what. Now and throughout eternity.

Let God’s acceptance bring you the comfort you need when others reject you or something you’ve done.

Father, I thank You for Your eternal love that never turns away those who come to You.


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Wednesday, February 3, 2021

Hey God...Speak Up - Martin Wiles

So he said to Samuel, “Go and lie down again, and if someone calls again, say, ‘Speak, Lord, your servant is listening.’” 1 Samuel 3:9 NLT

“And to think, I’s glad when you learned to talk.”

Opie wasn’t happy about his long-time housekeeper marrying someone else. So when Andy, who served as the Justice of the Peace, gave the option for anyone in the crowd to express a reason why the couple shouldn’t get married, Opie tried to speak up. After several interruptions—and Barney finally clasping his hand over Opie’s mouth—Andy finished the wedding—and made the above statement to Opie (“The New Housekeeper”).

I can identify. All parents get excited when their children speak their first word, especially if it’s Ma Ma or Da Da. But somewhere down the line—if they are a typical child—they’ll say something, perhaps many things, that parents wish they wouldn’t. I remember quite a few things I said to my parents that I later wished I could take back. And some things I uttered under my breath that they didn’t hear.

Israel had just passed through a dark period in their history where judges ruled the various tribes and war happened regularly. Everyone did what was right in their own eyes. Wickedness prevailed. The judges did the best they could under the circumstances, but somebody needed to speak up for God. God chose the final judge and prophet, Samuel, to do that.

God called him when he was only a boy. Since Samuel had never heard the Lord speak before, it took his mentor, Eli, to tell him what to say the next time he heard the voice: “Speak, Lord, your servant is listening.”

God may not always speak in some of the ways He did during the Old Testament period … but He still speaks. We can’t box Him in—He’s God and free to communicate any way He wants—but the most common ways are through His Word, prayer, other believers, and circumstances.

If we want to hear God—and take advantage of all He wants to do in our lives—we have to listen, which means spending regular time reading the Bible, praying, hanging around with other Christians, and paying attention to our circumstances.

God speaks through the still small voice of His Spirit to those who choose to follow Him, and when we ask Him to speak to us—as young Samuel did—He will. What we have to do after that is obey.

If you’re not hearing God, ask Him to speak. He will. And He will always give words that will make your life better if you obey.

Prayer: Father, speak to us clearly, and then give us the will to obey.

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Friday, January 24, 2020

Flashback Friday - Healing Hands - Martin Wiles

Healing Hands

Series: Practical Advice for Life

Little did Andy know when he traveled to a nearby town to arrest a noted publisher for failing to pay a ticket fine that he would be accused of malfeasance of office. The accusations were based on Barney's interview with one of the publisher’s reporters who disguised herself as a college kid. Telling her how Andy used the squad car for other than official business was all she needed to nail Andy. The state attorneys general saw the article and quickly presented Andy with the alarming accusation. Even more confusing was discovering that Barney was their star witness.

Andy and Barney eventually assembled the pieces of this puzzle, but Barney rose to the occasion:  “All them things I said; for example, his using the squad car for personal reasons. Sure, he was delivering groceries to Emma Watson because she was too sick to get down to the market. And that's just one example of the thing's Andy's done for the folks in this town.” (Andy on Trial 1962) Read more...

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Friday, March 15, 2019

Flashback Friday - How Many Sins Make Me Guilty? - Martin Wiles

How Many Sins Make Me Guilty?

“I figured I’d leave and not come back until I could make you proud of me again.”

Opie Taylor was an average student who studied hard but not as diligently as he could. But he wasn’t too worried this particular year; his teacher liked him. Even though Andy tried to explain that liking him had nothing to do with his grades, Opie wasn’t convinced. And getting all A’s on his report card didn’t help. Sadly, they weren’t from his studies or because the teacher liked him. She had made a mistake when transcribing his grades. Andy was so proud of Opie’s report card that Opie couldn’t bear to tell his father about the blunder. He felt guilt…that he couldn’t live up to his father’s expectations. His childhood solution was to run away and not come back until he could do something that would make his father proud of him. (“Opie’s Ill-Gotten Gain,” November 18, 1963) Read more...

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Friday, January 5, 2018

Flashback Friday - Managing Priorities - Martin Wiles

Managing Priorities

She was in town to swindle someone…anyone, and he just happened to cross her path.

In the Andy Griffith episode, Barney on the Rebound, Barney almost loses his money to a sweet-talking con-artist named Melissa. She and her husband were in the business of setting up men to marry her and then suing for breach of trust when the soon-to-be grooms got cold feet.

When the announcement of Barney and Melissa’s engagement hit the local paper, Barney was beside himself. Andy’s son Opie, however, zeroed in on a more important question: “Barney, if you got one girl, why do you need another?” And he had Thelma Lou. Read more...


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