Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts

Monday, October 20, 2025

Series: The Things We Say - God Don’t Like Ugly - Martin Wiles

God Don’t Like Ugly
Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself. 1Corinthians 6:19 NLT

Hearing about ugly episodes is a regular part of any day, but God don’t like ugly.

The early settlers along the James River—in what would become the United States of America—had some ugly in them, although they were responsible for the founding of one of the greatest nations in the world. Although the Native Americans helped them survive, the settlers fought with them and eventually pushed them from their land. Soon, slavery made its ugly entrance into the young colonies. Africans were imported by the millions and crowded in squalid conditions on ships where many died before they ever reached the colonies. As the colonies grew into a country and westward expansion occurred, slavery increased, and so did the mistreatment of other Native Americans.

Ugly didn’t cease once America was finalized with fifty states. Nor is it confined to America. I listen to ugly every day when I hear about murders, rapes, terrorist acts, natural disasters, shootings, and other acts of unkindness. I sometimes wonder where the pretty is.

Since our bodies are temples of God’s Spirit, they should be pretty places. I’ve never considered myself handsome. I can’t remember girls pining to date me when I was in high school. I had somewhat of an ugly complex. But regardless of how I appear on the outside, my inside can be handsome.

Sin makes us ugly. It’s easy to make light of sin by redefining it, calling it something else, or making it appear less tragic than it is. No matter what we do with it, God still sees it as ugly. Sin is behind the ugly we hear about and see each day. The absence of sin would result in the annihilation of all that’s bad in our world.

The only way we can keep our temples clean is to accept God’s solution for ugly: forgiveness. If ugly will separate us eternally from God, then we better fix it. Accepting what Christ has done on Calvary’s cross allows his righteousness to be credited to our account. Then we’re not ugly in God’s sight anymore. With the help of God’s Spirit indwelling us, our pretty inside will manifest itself outwardly in kind words and admirable actions, making the world a better place.

Let God transform your ugly to beauty.

Father, thank you for the beautiful new nature you offer us through Jesus Christ.



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Saturday, December 25, 2021

Be Your Best - Martin Wiles

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Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did. 1 John 2:6 NLT

“We won’t see anyone here we know,” I remarked to my wife.

Not that I wanted to do anything that would shame me. It’s just that everywhere my wife and I go, we seem to run into someone we know. But we were now in Savannah, Georgia. Two friends of ours had taken us on an overnight trip, all expenses paid. My wife had not visited Savannah since she was three years old, and I had not paid a visit in seventeen years.

After spending the night on nearby Tybee Island, eating breakfast there the next morning, and visiting a local lighthouse, we made our way to Savannah. We visited Bonaventure Cemetery and then made our way to River Street where we planned to walk the Factor Walk.

No sooner had we started, than we saw a couple waving at us. Sure enough, we knew them. They were friends from a previous church where we had once attended.

“What’s the chance of that happening?” I asked my wife after our brief conversation with them.

Then I texted Mom and told her. Her response? “Always be on your best behavior.” I guess a child never gets too old to receive good advice from a parent.

The same holds true when the advice comes from God. Through John, the oldest living apostle, God reminds us we should always live our lives as Jesus did.

Jesus always followed the plan of His heavenly Father, never wavering even a little bit. He imitated the Father, telling others He always did what the Father did and that He always spoke as the Father spoke.

Being our best also entails monitoring our physical and spiritual health. Our bodies are temples of God’s Spirit, so it matters what we put in them. God has plans for His children and a time frame for them to accomplish them in. Ruining our physical health with addictive substances or with too much of any good thing—play toys and busyness included—can shortcut God’s plan. Forgetting to engage in spiritual disciplines—or just doing them on a sporadic basis—makes us spiritually unhealthy and prevents us from being our best.

When we’re on our best behavior, we’ll handle God’s truth correctly. When we do, we’ll live it out daily in our thoughts, emotions, actions, and words. And even if we don’t run into anyone we know, God will be pleased.

Wherever you are, be on your best spiritual behavior.

Prayer: Father, help us to be on our best behavior, wherever we are.

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Wednesday, August 1, 2018

Putting on the New Self - Martin Wiles

Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. Ephesians 4:24 NLT
When she puts on new clothing, a smile graces her face.
My wife rarely buys new clothes or shoes. One reason is that she is thrifty and hates to pay the price of new clothing. So she often shops in thrift stores, and on the few times she shops in retail stores she looks for the bargain racks.
The smile that crosses her face when she tries on something new is priceless. One day, she came home with a new pair of tennis shoes—shoes that appeared to be Converse. But they weren’t. At least, not by the label—which was missing. She didn’t need the label to be satisfied. She smiled anyway.
Paul told early believers to put on their new nature just like they dressed every day. In most societies, going out in public undressed will get you arrested for indecent behavior. Just as I have to dress each day, I also have to put on the new nature Christ has given me.
I received my new nature the moment I trusted Christ as my Savior. Every believer does. Since I never lose it—and Christ won’t take it from me—why does Paul say to put it on daily? The idea relates to effort and intentionality. He is telling me to act like a Christian every day. My new nature should express itself in certain ways.
When I put on that new nature, it transforms me into the person Christ intends for me to be. In Christ, I’m perfect—but I’m not in practice. I learn to be who I am in position. I won’t automatically love everyone. I must learn to. I won’t naturally show love to every person I meet. I learn to do it. And so it goes with all the fruits of the Spirit: joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control.
Putting on the new nature validates my profession. Who I tell others I am must be who they see. Otherwise, I’m a hypocrite and they are turned off to Christ.
And like my wife when she gets a new piece of clothing or a new pair of shoes, I’m happy when I put on my new self. When I do, I’m being myself, and I’m always happiest when I’m being me.
Put on your new self every day. You’ll be satisfied, God will be pleased, and others will be blessed.

Prayer: Father, give us the strength to put on our new natures each day in our words, actions, and attitudes. 

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Saturday, March 3, 2018

Clothed with Christ - Martin Wiles

And all who have been united with Christ in baptism have put on Christ, like putting on new clothes. Galatians 3:27 NLT
My shirt spoke volumes without ever saying a word.
I had been called to pastor a small-town church. I was excited—and so was everyone else. What better way to show my pride and for the members to show their pride over belonging to that particular church than to order t-shirts with the church name, along with a logo or Bible verse? So we did.
When we went on mission trips, we wore our shirts. Church outings? We wore our shirts. Around town? We wore our shirts. And sometimes when we went out on the town for a night, we’d all decide to wear our shirts. Then it hit me. Our shirts were speaking words without ever saying any, and I was caught in the middle.
If I hit my finger with a hammer, I had to watch what I said. If I was in the retail store with a buggy full of items and there was only one register open, I had to monitor my words and actions. If the waiter or waitress acted as if they could care less that I was patronizing their place of employment, I had to watch how I responded. If someone I was out with told an off-color joke, should I laugh?
Whether to wear the shirts or not became a joke between my wife and I and a couple we often went out with. If we wore our shirts, we had to be on our best behavior. If we didn’t, no one would know we were Christians—unless we gave it away in some other way.
Wrong assumption. Paul says I was clothed with Christ the moment I chose to become His follower. I don’t have to wear a shirt; I wear Him. He speaks more words than a shirt ever could. And He speaks them through my actions, words, and attitudes.
I don’t have to advertise myself as Christian by clothing or jewelry—although there’s nothing wrong with Christian symbols. When I exercise love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control, people assume there is something different about me. All are traits they’re probably not accustomed to seeing—at least not on a regular basis. If I show the opposite of those traits, they assume I’m just a regular guy.
Remember who you are clothed with. Let Christ speak loudly every day through your lifestyle.

Prayer: Father, may we show others our identity through our words, actions, and attitudes. 

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Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Throwback Tuesday - Martin Wiles

Behaving Like a Mockingbird

Mockingbird : Northern Mockingbird perched on thorny branch isolated on whiteAs the final rays of daylight gave way to darkness’ canopy, my wife and I listened to the fading voices of the chirping choir. Eventually, all silenced except one…a mockingbird.

Mockingbirds are easily recognizable by their wide variety of sounds as they imitate other birds and even insects and amphibians. As we listened to this bird’s solo chorus, we heard cardinals, blue jays, as well as many other sounds we didn’t recognize. Read more...


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Tuesday, October 25, 2016

Throwback Tuesday - Martin Wiles

You Are What You Think

Some chuckled while others appeared confused. “Stinking thinking leads to nasty actions.” I said it in a ninth grade Bible class when the subject came up while studying the believer’s armor-particularly the helmet of salvation. And it does.

Helmets are important. For race car drivers, equestrian riders, motorcycle racers, football players, baseball batters, hockey enthusiasts, and even bull wranglers. They protect one of the most important parts of our body…the brain. While the heart is of utmost importance…the ceasing of which essentially ends our bodily existence, brain damage affects body movement, decision making and even the ability to personally function. More importantly…though we might not know the exact connection, it affects the mind as well. Read more...


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Tuesday, October 11, 2016

Throwback Tuesday - Martin Wiles

Conduct Matters

“Why does it matter? It’s not hurting anyone but me.”

I once owned a habit about which I thought the above. I could engage in this practice while driving and not kill anyone. And unless someone was sitting in close proximity to me, my habit didn’t affect them either. Sure it was expensive, but my creditors received their dues. I even checked with my conservative father about the ethical nature of my habit. He told me it was a personal preference. So I kept my practice until I began teaching a Sunday School class and eventually pastoring a church. Then my conduct didn’t seem to fit anymore. Read more...


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