Identity: Was Versus Is - Martin Wiles

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! 2 Corinthians 5:27 NLT

I wasn’t sure who I would become, and I wasn’t always sure I wanted to remain who I was. 

I’ve been many things. I was a preacher’s kid from the time I was eight years old until my dad died when I was forty-nine years old. I was once a grandchild. That identity vanished when my last grandparent died. For a short period, I was an Orkin exterminator. Crawling under houses, seeing animals I didn’t care to see, hitting my head, and smelling odors convinced me I didn’t want that identity. 

For two years, I worked in a warehouse. Someone else decided I shouldn’t continue that identity when they laid me off and never called me back. Then I became a textile worker for four years. I went from weaver to floor sweeper to supervisor. When I answered God’s call to enter the ministry, I went from textile worker to preacher. Along the way, I also taught school. 

Those are positions I once held—labels I once carried—but they weren’t who I was. As a nine-year-old lad, I listened to my dad explain the plan of salvation. I asked Jesus to forgive my sins and come into my heart. I pledged to follow him as my Savior. In that moment, I became what Paul called a new person. Everything old passed into the past, and a new life began. I was a Christian who might be a preacher’s kid, grandchild, textile worker, Orkin exterminator, teacher, or preacher. My real identity, however, was bound up with Christ.

Another identity I left behind when I chose Christ was sinner. I love the song, “I’m Just a Sinner Saved by Grace,” but I question the theology. Yes, I was saved by grace, but the Bible doesn’t continue to classify believers as sinners. Instead, it classifies us as saints. We’re not perfect—and won’t be this side of heaven—but we are saints because Christ has given us his righteousness. We are God’s children, friends, and joint heirs with Christ.  

Knowing who you are is crucial. It will shape your actions and attitudes when you face life’s difficulties. 

Father, thank you for changing my identity when I trusted your Son as my Savior. 

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5 Flavor Pound Cake

 

Ingredients

3 CUPS PLAIN FLOUR

3 CUPS SUGAR

2 STICKS MARGARINE

½ CUP CRISCO

1 CUP MILK

6 EGGS

1 TEASPOON VANILLA FLAVORING

1 TEASPOON COCONUT FLAVORING 

1 TEASPOON BUTTER RUM FLAVORING     

1 TEASPOON LEMON FLAVORING

1 TEASPOON ALMOND  FLAVORING

Directions

CREAM BUTTER AND CRISCO.

ADD SUGAR AND BEAT WELL.

ADD EGGS ONE AT A TIME. BEAT WELL. 

MIX FLAVORING WITH MILK.

ADD FLOUR AND MILK TO BATTER, STARTING WITH FLOUR THEN MILK.

ADD A LITTLE AT A TIME, STARTING AND ENDING WITH FLOUR.

POUR INTO A GREASED TUBE PAN.

BAKE AT 350 DEGREES FOR ONE HOUR.

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Building a Lasting House - Martin Wiles

By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures. Proverbs 24:3-4 NIV

Houses are constructed; homes are made.

As a preacher’s kid, my daughter lived in several different homes. The trend continued during her college years. While living on campus, she stayed in several different dorms. Then, when she and a couple of her friends moved off campus, she lived in houses and apartments. After graduation, the practice continued. 

Each place was different. Some were large, some small, some cluttered, some neat, some filled with furniture and treasures, and some sparsely furnished. Growing up as a preacher’s kid—and being a preacher myself—I’ve experienced the same.

According to wise King Solomon, it takes wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and education to build a house, apartment, or any type of building. But we can’t measure, cut, and assemble these elements. I believe the writer had a deeper meaning in mind.

Personally, I’ve never built anything except chicken coops, hog sheds, and one small utility shed, but even those small projects required planning, buying materials, measuring, cutting, and putting pieces together if I wanted them to do the job I built them for. 

Through his parable of the wise and foolish builders, Jesus points to the importance of a good foundation—something the writer of these verses would probably agree with. The foundation Jesus referenced was more than a literal foundation made of wood or concrete. It was a relationship with him. 

While houses are built, homes are made by the lives of the people who live there. When inhabitants build their lives on a relationship with Jesus Christ and live with character, integrity, and principles, that home becomes a place that shines a light far beyond the walls holding it together. 

Commit to building your home with the right elements. When you do, it will withstand any storm that may come. 

Father, give me the courage to construct my home with lasting materials. 

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Love Fulfills - Martin Wiles

For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Galatians 5:14 NLT

In a split second, their lives were changed.

Bobby and Jackie were a young couple with a small child. He had been called into youth ministry and was serving in a little church not far from Jackie’s home. Things were going well—until the accident.

Out of nowhere, a truck slammed into their vehicle. Jackie and their infant daughter weren’t seriously injured, but Bobby’s life was changed forever. The wreck placed him in a vegetative state for the remainder of his life. 

I was told the story when I became Jackie’s pastor. Now the daughter was a young child without a father; Jackie was a young wife and mother who, for all practical purposes, had no husband; and Bobby lay in a nursing home fifty miles away. 

I visited Bobby once a month, and every time one of his family members was present. They all took turns caring for him. Bobby was fed through a tube, but he still needed constant attention. Coughing spells racked his body. Fluids drained from his mouth and nose. 

As I watched Bobby’s family tend to his special needs, I realized what the apostle Paul meant. For the committed Jew, the law consisted of the Ten Commandments, the ceremonial laws, and the laws added by the religious authorities. For Paul, it was simply God’s moral laws, and all of them could be obeyed by merely loving one’s neighbor.

I’ve seen enough love for the wrong reasons. The consequences are never pretty. But loving for the right reason paints a beautiful portrait. We can experience and demonstrate love because Christ has loved us. While we were still sinners, Christ died for us and now gives us the opportunity to love others for him.

Loving others sets an example. As I watched Bobby’s family perform the unpleasant parts of caring for an invalid, I was reminded of Jesus washing his disciples’ feet. The example was inspiring. Loving others sets an example for those who desperately need to see love in action. 

When we love our neighbors as ourselves, we also point them to Christ. Our words may not crack the hard shell of someone who doubts or disbelieves in Christ, but it's hard to argue with acts of love. They say what our words can’t adequately speak. 

Just ask, and God will give you myriad opportunities to put love for others into action.

Father, give me the fortitude to love others as you love me so I might point a hurting world to a healing Savior. 

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Fear Not - Martin Wiles

But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 19:14 KJV

Fear kept him from going where he wanted to go.

One of my family’s favorite things to do during the Christmas season is looking at lights. One Sunday evening, my wife, daughter, her two sons at the time, and I decided to ride to a neighboring town where the local park was decorated. And where Santa sat in a Boy Scout hut giving out candy, asking children what they wanted for Christmas, and letting them take a picture with him. The grandkids were excited.

Our one-hour drive had given our grandsons time to fall asleep. Waking them brought tears, whines, and a reluctant agreement to get out and see the lights and Santa. As we stood in line outside the small hut, they screamed, whined, and growled. Our daughter finally had enough and said, “Let’s go.” No Santa.

Both boys calmed down after a stroll around the park, so we decided to try the “Ho Ho” thing again. This time, they were excited. But when we made it inside the hut, only one remained excited enough to sit on Santa’s lap. The younger one wanted to get close enough for a candy cane but wasn’t about to sit on Ho Ho’s lap. Excitement drew him, but fear drove him away.

Jesus must have been a little different than Santa. Since the disciples were trying to keep the children away from him, the children must have been flocking to him—sitting on his lap, gathering around his feet, asking him questions, wanting him to tell stories.

Some maintain the Old Testament God is different than the New Testament Jesus. I beg to differ. The writers of the Old Testament tended to emphasize God’s holy nature. He cannot look upon sin and will punish those who choose to rebel against His standards. Thus the fear—or holy reverence—of him.

Jesus, however, showed us God’s loving side. Yes, he has standards, but his love reaches all people—and so does his offer of forgiveness. Like the little children and the crowds, God wants people to flock to him. He created us for a relationship with him.

Don’t let fear keep you away from God. Like Santa, he wants you to sit on his lap, spend some time with him, and get to know him. It’s a decision you won’t regret.

Father, take away my fear or unconcern so that I will come to you for comfort, encouragement, guidance, and forgiveness. 

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Lemon Glazed Pound Cake

Ingredients

3 CUPS PLAIN FLOUR

3 CUPS SUGAR

2 STICKS MARGARINE

½ CUP CRISCO

1 CUP MILK

6 EGGS

1 TEASPOON VANILLA

1 TEASPOON LEMON FLAVORING

Directions

CREAM BUTTER AND CRISCO. 

BEAT UNTIL CREAMY AND ADD SUGAR. BEAT WELL.

ADD EGGS 1 AT A TIME. BEAT WELL. 

MIX FLAVORING WITH MILK.

ADD FLOUR AND MILK TO BATTER. 

START WITH FLOUR, THEN ADD MILK. ADD A LITTLE AT A TIME, STARTING AND ENDING WITH FLOUR.

POUR INTO A GREASED TUBE PAN.

BAKE AT 350 DEGREES FOR 1 HOUR.

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Wind Grabbing - Martin Wiles

I observed everything going on under the sun, and really, it is all meaningless—like chasing the wind. Ecclesiastes 1:14 NLT

The parking lot symbolized what once was but would never be again.

In the early 1980s, Ryan’s Steakhouse was the most popular eating establishment in Greenwood, SC. One could choose from a bar of meats, salads, vegetables, starches, and homemade desserts—or order from a selection of juicy steaks. Sunday lunches—as well as Sunday nights after church—saw the restaurant packed.  

Then other popular restaurants encroached on Ryan’s territory. Places like Chiles, O’Charley’s, and Outback Steakhouse. Ryan’s cut out their signature steaks and went solely to a food bar. Crowds thinned. And one day, they closed their doors. Financial struggles, along with waning crowds, made the decision. 

What’s left of Ryan’s was once on my daily walking route. As I walked up and down its parking lot, I thought back on what once was. Cars packed the parking lot and overflowed into a neighboring restaurant’s lot. Lines of people snaked out of the front door, waiting to pay and be seated. The smell of steaks simmering on the grill filled the air, along with conversations and laughter as people mingled. 

But no more. Grass grew through cracks in the asphalt. Leaves and pine straw littered the lot. Empty pallets, pieces of rock, and other left-behind paraphernalia spoiled the ground—as if someone was in a hurry or reluctant to leave. 

Sometimes, as I walked through the deserted parking lot, I longed for the good ‘ole days. Yet, I know they’ll never return. What once brought satisfaction to many, me included, won’t ever again. 

King Solomon, the writer of Ecclesiastes, knew disappointment as well. He hadn’t sampled Ryan’s, but he had everything else. As the wealthiest man alive, he could, and did. However, nothing brought him lasting satisfaction. Pleasure was always one grasp away. Just when he thought he had found it, the wind blew it from his grasp. 

Such is the nature of things, whatever they are. Restaurants, relationships, play toys, possessions, power, prestige. They’re all temporary, here for our momentary enjoyment. Perhaps that’s why Jesus said to store our treasures in heaven … to invest in what outlasts time. Those things that will have a lasting influence long after we’re gone. 

The Ryans of the world lose their popularity and often close their doors. Your life, too, will one day end, but you can leave a legacy for others to remember and emulate. 

Father, guide me to invest in what will outlive my life. 

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