Showing posts with label smiling. Show all posts
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Friday, December 27, 2024

A Serving of Laughter - Anita van der Elst

A Serving of Laughter

A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength. 

~Proverbs 17:22 NLT

Could finding humor in everyday situations be beneficial?

A comedy routine was not what I had in mind as I rolled out the dough. Not that making baking powder biscuits isn’t fun. I enjoy mixing the ingredients, kneading flour into the sticky dough, rolling it out on the breadboard, and cutting out perfect circles that turn into puffy clouds of tastiness. This process is repeated until all the dough is used up, except for those bits that aren’t enough to roll out anymore. Yet, even they don’t go to waste. I ball, flatten, and toss them onto the baking sheet. The oven-baked result is satisfied tummies, signified by smiles.

One evening, as dinner ended, I picked up the bread basket and held it out to my husband, seeing that a couple of biscuits remained. “There are two more biscuits left. Would you like them?” 

The expression on his face was a dubious one. “What’s wrong?” I asked. 

Widening his eyes, he replied, “What happened to them? How did they get that way?” 

I shrugged my shoulders. “What do you mean?” 

He pointed at the biscuits, “Why would I want two more biscuits? Look, they’re all lumpy.” 

I explained how they were the last ones made with the leftover dough. 

“Oh,” he said. “I thought you meant they had tumors. You know, tumor biscuits?” 

That’s when I realized he was pulling my leg. I don’t know why I didn't expect that because he’s pulled it since we started dating almost fifty years ago. In fact, it was one of the factors in his favor. He made me laugh.

With so many things in our world that upset, frighten, confuse, and madden us, finding ways to lift our spirits, cheer our hearts, and bring on giggles is important. Research shows that laughter boosts our immune system, lessens pain, and relieves stress.

Connecting with your funny bone might take an hour listening to a Christian comedian, reading a clean joke book, sharing humorous stories with friends, or even being offered the last of the biscuits. But it's worth it. So, go ahead and take a serving of laughter. 

Think of methods that will bring you a smile and a hearty laugh.



Anita van der Elst finds joy in creating with words, believing God gifted her with the desire to do so. Married to her best friend, Edward, since 1976, she is a proud mom of four adult children and Oma to three of the most delightful grandchildren ever. Other joys in her life include bringing beauty to Facebook through photos she takes on her iPhone, exploring the state parks in the PNW, facilitating a small group of women, and participating in a Bible study. 


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Monday, June 21, 2021

Meandering Monday - Smiling the Blues Away - Martin Wiles

Welcome to Meandering Monday, where we take a trip back to an earlier post and enjoy it again. 

A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength. Proverbs 17:22 NLT

My mother is an expert at getting freebies.

 

When she heard about a local promoter giving away free tickets for a comedy show to pastors and their wives, she made the contact. Even though my father has been dead for a number of years—and my mom has since remarried—she still considers herself a pastor’s wife.

 

Sure enough, the promoter granted her and my wife and me tickets, and we struck out for a night of laughs from three Christian personalities. We needed the laughs. All of us had endured a stressful three weeks. A night away seemed to be the perfect ticket.

 

Laughter is good for the soul. The old cliché that it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile has been around in one form or another for many years. Variables involved in actually proving the truth of how many muscles it requires to do each are also numerous. But the conclusion remains steadfast: smiling is better for our health than frowning.

 

People respond to facial expressions—especially a smile. The expression, “Give a smile to get a smile,” is accurate most of the time. Frowning at someone who is smiling at me is extremely difficult, and if I’m smiling others will normally reciprocate.

 

On bad days, I can smile myself into a better mood. If I choose to smile, my attitude will usually follow. While times exist when I need to frown—such as in times of grief—smiling helps me reinterpret my circumstances and drive away the everyday woolies. After all, a broken spirit dries the bones.

 

More energy is expended by frowning and adopting a negative attitude than it is by smiling and cuddling a positive frame of mind. Smiles relieve stress. When stress is diminished, the immune system is boosted, blood pressure is lowered, and we stay positive.

 

Whom can you share a smile with today?

 

Prayer: Eternal Lord and Savior, when the world around us needs a smile, enable us to give them one.


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Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Throwback Tuesday - Putting on the Grace Face - Martin Wiles

Putting on the Grace Face

Supposedly it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile. While the saying has been around for quite some time, the numbers used to prove the conclusion vary with each story. In spite of the discrepancies, the basic premise is certainly true: it’s more relaxing and pleasant to smile than frown. 

Yet life’s dilemmas, downturns, and tragedies make it difficult to keep a smile on my face continuously. A restless night of sleep, a berating by the boss, or a child not satisfied with my parenting methods can prevent a smile from appearing on my face. Nor do I want my smile to be manufactured as the ones plastered on model’s faces often are. When I smile, I want it to reflect that I have an honest reason to smile. Read more...

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