Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Riding the Complaint Roller Coaster - Martin Wiles

riding the complaint roller coaster
But the people grew impatient along the way, and they began to murmur against God and Moses. Numbers 21:4 NLT

Riding roller coasters is not my forte. I recall getting on Thunder Road at Carowinds Theme Park once—and only then to please a girlfriend. I clung to my seat and my girlfriend as the row of cars inched to the top of the first mountain. I held my breath as my car began its breathtaking descent through the valleys and curves to follow. No loops. No corkscrews. Just up and down and around curves at breakneck speed. I sighed a breath of relief when the string of cars finally stopped.

I’ve also ridden another type of roller coaster—one the ancient Israelites rode quite often—called the complainer’s roller coaster. God delivered them from four hundred years of slavery, but that wasn’t good enough. They quickly disobeyed him, and he sentenced them to forty years of wilderness wandering. Even then, he ensured they had food, water, and shelter. That wasn’t good enough either. They complained about what He gave as well as the timing of His giving it.

The Israelites didn’t complain continuously. Nor do I. Like the roller coaster, my complaining is up and down--enough, however, I’m sure to rattle God’s nerves. Some maintain complaining doesn’t change a thing. But sometimes, it does. Yet, healthier ways to affect change exist than through a griping attitude.

Complaining shows a lack of appreciation for the way God cares for us. We may think we know best how God should meet our needs, but only a God who can peer into the future really does. A faith walk lives not by sight but by trust in a God who is all-knowing and unconditionally loving.

Our complaints also reveal we doubt God’s goodness. God is good all the time. Our definition of good and his may differ, but we must trust he has our best interests at heart.

Additionally, when we complain, we question God’s methods. His ways are higher than ours and often beyond our ability to understand. But he is God, and we are not.

Much better than complaining is a willingness to accept our situations, to be content in them, and to ask God what he is trying to teach us through them. Complete trust takes us off the complainer’s roller coaster.

Father, prompt me to ride the roller coaster of thankfulness rather than complaining. 

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