Two people are better than one, because they can reap more benefit from their labor. For if they fall, one will help his companion up, but pity the person who falls down and has no one to help him up. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NET
of defeat and hopelessness overtook me as life’s circumstances proceeded to
kick me in the side and punch me in the gut.
sat paralyzed in my office chair, allowing rivers of tears to stream down my
face. I threatened to call someone but convinced myself no one would
understand. How could I live in a community of like-minded believers, yet feel isolated
and alone? As I reflected, reality sank in. My loneliness was a self-inflicted
wound. My assumptions and lack of healthy conflict resolution caused me to
convince myself that relationships were too much work. There I sat in the desert,
left to face the hardest person I had ever faced—me.
I felt battered, bruised, and broken and wanted to scream out to the Father and
ask Him why He had forsaken me. But at that moment, something clicked, and I
felt closer to my Savior than ever before. If no one else could relate to my
emotions or understand my circumstances, Jesus certainly could.
attempted to peel myself from my desk chair to no avail, justifying my
withdrawal by verbally reminding myself that Jesus was all I needed. I pictured
a hollow chocolate Easter bunny—the only image I could produce to convey my
feelings. Isolation proved more difficult than fellowship.
Solomon explained that we all fall and need encouragement from fellow believers,
but we must connect to the body of Christ to get it. We can accomplish more
working together than on our own. Even if we think no one can relate to our situation,
we may be surprised at how many others experience something similar. Exposure
to others provides varying perspectives and new insights.
were not meant to go through life alone. We are relational beings, meant for
fellowship with like-minded Christ followers. Realizing we need others evidences
spiritual growth and maturation, not weakness.
are some ways you can encourage others?
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Tranece Harris is pursuing a M.A. in Christian Education at Dallas Theological Seminary. She serves as the president of the ARISE Women Student Fellowship at DTS and works as an admissions counselor. Upon graduation, Tranece plans to start her own nonprofit to offer life coaching to women at no cost. She wants to help women discover their God-given purpose, identify their unique design, and realize their self-worth. She and her husband, Terrence, serve as spiritual growth facilitators. When Tranece is not studying or working, she spends time with her three beautiful daughters, Thalia Faith, Tianna Grace, and Tamara Peace.
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