Showing posts with label stubborn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stubborn. Show all posts

Monday, July 7, 2025

Stubborn Is as Stubborn Does - Martin Wiles

stubborn is as stubborn does
Then they will not be like their ancestors—stubborn, rebellious, and unfaithful, refusing to give their hearts to God. Psalm 78:8 NLT

Something magical happened when my grandfather whispered the words, “Giddy up.”

I’ve seen only a few mules in my lifetime. Yet being familiar with the saying, “stubborn as a mule,” gives me a clue about their personality. My grandfather knew mules and their nature. His father died when he was twelve, leaving him to run the family farm. An uncle helped him, but for some reason, mules didn’t appreciate Uncle Ransom. When he gave the command to “giddy up,” they didn’t budge—at least, most of the time. Or if they did, they stubbornly plowed a crooked row. When my grandfather asked, however, they plowed in straight rows. Something in Uncle Ransom’s nature brought out the stubbornness of the mule’s nature.

Later, after my grandfather gave up farming and began delivering ice, then milk, and finally ice cream, he encountered stubbornness once again—and benefited from it. Some business owners were quite challenging to work with because of their stubborn nature. What other salesmen couldn’t deal with and threw up their hands to, my grandfather confronted with his patient nature and won them over as customers.

God also encountered stubbornness, but not so much in pagans. He discovered it in his chosen people. The people he had called out from among all people groups of the world. The people to whom he delivered the Promised Land. The people He delivered from four hundred years of slavery. Instead of worshipping Him, they often stubbornly followed the wicked ways of their unbelieving neighbors.

I can name a few times when I’ve been stubborn as well. Wanted to do things my way instead of God’s way. Thought I knew best. God gave me good examples to follow, and I stubbornly chose the bad instead.

Stubbornness keeps us out of God’s will. Like a mule, we’ll refuse to budge toward God’s revealed will, or we’ll plow a crooked row of inconsistency in obedience. When we’re out of God’s will, paucity follows. God’s blessings can’t—or won’t—flow when we’re living in stubborn disobedience.

God suggests a cure: remember his blessings of the past and obey his commands. When we do this, we’ll “giddy up”—and gladly, when God whispers the command.

Don’t let stubbornness cause you to miss out on God’s best.

Father, deal with my stubborn nature, making it pliable, so I’ll willingly obey what you tell me.

 

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Saturday, March 30, 2019

As Stubborn As… - Martin Wiles

Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control. Psalm 32:9 NLT

“Gitty up” meant nothing when Uncle Ransom said it.

My grandfather’s dad died when my grandfather was twelve years old, leaving him as the man of the house to run the family farm. One brother and a number of sisters still lived at home, and his mother needed his help. But at twelve years of age, he couldn’t run the farm alone.

His favorite uncle, Ransom, agreed to help. Plowing fields with mules could be gratifying or aggravating. For Ransom, it was the latter. Perhaps his temperament didn’t jive well with the mule’s. Maybe he used words they didn’t appreciate or gave commands with tones they detested. When Ransom plowed, the mule either balked or plowed a crooked row. But with my grandfather, things differed. He had a pleasant voice and a kind demeanor. When he commanded the mules, they did as he asked: gittied up and plowed straight.

The psalmist prefaces his command with a promise from the Lord: “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you” (Psalm 32:8). But often I’m like the senseless horse or stubborn mule when He tries to guide me.

In spite of our stubbornness, God wills to guide us along the best pathway. He does so because He loves us and has our best interests at heart. We are His masterpieces, capable of great evil or capable of great good. He will lead us to accomplish the latter if we’ll place ourselves under His watchful care.

God also has the power to lead us along pathways that enhance the good parts of our nature. He created us in His image, and, though sin has marred that image, He can still form us into creations who mimic His attitudes and actions if we allow Him. He is an all-powerful God, able to do supernatural things. Among them, changing our stubborn wills.

And God wants to lead us along these wonderful pathways. He is a God of love who adores us with all of His heart and who wants us to love Him in return with our whole hearts. He doesn’t enjoy seeing us suffer unnecessarily because we have strayed from the paths of righteousness.

Don’t be as stubborn as a mule. Listen to God. He’ll take you down life’s best pathways.



Prayer: Father, turn our hearts toward You, so we will follow Your pathways obediently. 


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Thursday, March 16, 2017

Dealing with a Difficult Audience - Martin Wiles

They are a stubborn and hard-hearted people. But I am sending you to say to them, “This is what the Sovereign LORD says!” Ezekiel 2:4 NLT

God never promises what He asks us to do will be easy—and it wasn’t for Dad.

Other than when I was a small child, I only knew Dad as a preacher. Living in a preacher’s home makes one privy to information the normal church member might not be aware of. One thing, getting the inside scoop on how difficult some people can be. 

I recall one country church my father pastored. He, Mom, and my two brothers loved the area and the people. It was country living at its finest. I loved it too and soon decided to move to the area as well. No sooner had I settled in, than Dad decided to move. 

He and the congregants got along well, but one thing bothered him. On the Sunday of his resignation, he said, “I’ve been here two years, and no one has ever come forward during an altar call.” Though he loved the people, in Dad’s mind, they were a difficult audience to preach to. Perhaps the needed decisions were all made in the pew, but Dad wanted to see action. 

I’ve felt Dad’s concern. Having pastored several smaller membership churches, I too have preached hundreds of sermons and saw little if any movement to the altar. Maybe they too made their decisions in the pew.

Dad and I could have mistaken our audiences as difficult to preach to, but Ezekiel didn’t. He didn’t have to make the judgment call because God did it for him. Stubborn. Hard-hearted. But God sent him anyway. 

Whatever the audience God sends me to, my responsibility is simply to be faithful to His call. God doesn’t hold me responsible for their decisions—whether many, few, or none at all. Or whether they’ve been made publicly or privately. My job is simply to deliver the message God gives. 

Sometimes God has to remind me that even though I don’t see fruit it doesn’t mean fruit hasn’t been produced. Seeing matters of the heart is difficult. My job is to trust God to give me the strength to do whatever task He assigns. And He will. As He does, He’ll walk by my side, giving guidance the entire way. 

When God calls you to deliver a message to a difficult audience, remember He’ll be faithful to you if you are faithful to Him.

Prayer: Father, enable us to trust You to guide us and give us strength regardless of the audience you call us to speak to. 

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Thursday, March 9, 2017

Stubborn Is as Stubborn Does - Martin Wiles

Then they will not be like their ancestors—stubborn, rebellious, and unfaithful, refusing to give their hearts to God. Psalm 78:8 NLT

Something magical happened when my grandfather whispered the words, “Giddy up.”

I’ve seen only a few mules in my lifetime. Yet being familiar with the saying, “stubborn as a mule,” gives me a clue about their personality. My grandfather was familiar with mules and their nature. His father died when he was 12, leaving him to run the family farm. 

An uncle helped him, but for some reason, mules didn’t appreciate Uncle Ransom. When he gave the command to “giddy up,” they didn’t most of the time. Or if they did, they stubbornly plowed a crooked row. When my grandfather asked, however, they plowed in straight rows. Something in the nature of Uncle Ransom brought out the stubbornness of the mule’s nature.

Later, after my grandfather gave up farming and began working for an ice and later an ice cream company, he encountered stubbornness once again—and benefited from it. Some business owners were quite challenging to work with because of their stubborn nature. What other salesmen couldn’t deal with, my grandfather confronted with his patient nature and won them over as customers.

God also encountered stubbornness—but not so much in pagans. He discovered it in His chosen people. The people He called out from among all people groups of the world. The people He gave a Promised Land. The people He delivered from 400 years of slavery. Instead of worshipping Him, they often stubbornly followed the wicked ways of their unbelieving neighbors.

I can name a few times when I’ve been stubborn as well. Wanted to do things my way instead of God’s way. Thought I knew best. God gave me good examples to follow, and I stubbornly chose the bad instead. 

Stubbornness keeps me out of God’s will. Like a mule, I’ll refuse to budge toward God’s revealed will, or I’ll plow a crooked row of inconsistency in my obedience. When I’m out of God’s will, paucity follows. God’s blessings can’t or won’t flow when I’m living in stubborn disobedience.

God suggests a cure for stubbornness: remember His blessings of the past and obey His commands. When I do this, I’ll “giddy up”—and gladly, when God whispers the command. 

Don’t let stubbornness cause you to miss out on God’s best. 

Prayer: Father, deal with our stubborn natures, making them pliable, so we’ll willingly obey what You tell us. 


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