Friday, May 31, 2013

Storm Promises by Martin Wiles

Like the weather, life changes abruptly…and it did for hundreds on Monday, May 20, 2013.

At three in the afternoon, a massive EF5 tornado packing 200 mph winds spent 40 minutes on the ground in and around Monroe, Oklahoma, traveled 17 miles, and leveled 13,000 homes, several schools, and a hospital. Twenty four people were killed, and two billion dollars in damage was done. 

Paul also experienced a change in weather. But the weather changed abruptly, and a wind of typhoon strength (called a “northeaster”) burst across the island (Acts 27:14 NLT). He had warned the ship’s officers not to leave the previous port, but his caution was overruled. Efforts to save the ship were unsuccessful, and though hope vanished, Paul had angelic news. The ship would perish but not the passengers.

Just as erratic weather patterns produce monster storms that destroy life and limb, so spiritual storms usually assault us when we least expect it. Knowing Christ as Savior doesn’t exempt us, but at least God gives us a couple storm promises.

God’s indwelling Spirit will give us power to endure and overcome the storm. Some years later, Paul reflected and wrote, And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love (Romans 8:38 NLT). God’s Spirit never leaves or abandons us and is always present to provide comfort and wisdom.

God also controls the length and intensity of life’s storms. No storm arrives without his permission, nor do they hang around any longer or do any greater damage than he gives them authorization to.

No one enjoys storms…natural or spiritual, but they’re part of the journey. When it seems as if you’ve lost all hope, turn to the One who gives strength and hope even in the most devastating storms.

Prayer: We trust You all-powerful God to carry us through the storms of life and to give us hope even when it appears there is none.

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Thursday, May 30, 2013

No Death’s Sting by Martin Wiles

“If I eat this, will it kill me?”

The thought of death first entered my mind as a child and manifested itself in a multitude of questions that drove my mother crazy. Would eating particular things kill me? Would certain substances initiate my demise? I was coming to grips with my mortality. I wasn’t invincible after all.

As a teen, such curiosities took flight. I was unconquerable-or at least thought so. This mindset materialized in various unwise decisions and actions. Reality returned when I became a young adult, and several health issues reminded me I wasn’t indomitable.

Whether the thought of death brings a sting depends on one’s position. Jesus was hanging between two criminals-all three of which were experiencing death’s sting. One of them, however, realized there was a way to escape it. He cried out for mercy, and Jesus replied, “I assure you, today you will be with me in paradise (Luke 23:43 NLT).”

Death involves an inherent element of fear because I’ve never experienced it. I’ve listened to and read material by those who have and who have supposedly returned from it. But it still hasn’t been my experience.

Here’s what I’m sure of. I have no reason to fear if my life is hidden in God. Jesus conquered death, and as his child I will also. Soul sleep is a farce. Jesus told the redeemed thief he would be with him in paradise that very day. Death isn’t the end. Eternity follows, and it’s heaven for those who trust in Christ. Heaven is also a place where all earth’s dreadful elements will be eradicated; otherwise it wouldn’t be paradise. Sin-and all of its consequences, will be forever banned.

When you, a loved one, or a friend is facing death, remember that in Christ it loses its sting.

Prayer:  Eternal God, we accept death’s reality but thank You that in Christ we don’t have to fear its sting.

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Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Breaking the Chain by Martin Wiles

My father didn’t smoke, but his father did…at least for a short period. My grandfather’s smoking consisted of rabbit tobacco (a poor man’s smoke) and Chesterfield cigarettes. But when he reached the age of being able to legally smoke, he quit. It wasn’t fun anymore. My father broke the chain by never starting.

My mother also broke a chain. Her father was a heavy drinker and smoker. Every glass of Pepsi Cola was prefaced by a shot of whiskey. Empty liquor bottles hugged the seams of every barn on his farm. Each shirt pocket housed a pack of Camel or Salem cigarettes. But as far as I know, my mother never tasted a drop of alcohol or puffed on a cigarette. 

Unfortunately King Amon didn’t break the chain. His father Manasseh would have ranked near the top of any list of corrupt kings with such acts as idol worship, sacrificing his own children, and Temple desecration. He later cried out for God’s forgiveness…but not his son. But unlike his father, he did not humble himself before the LORD. Instead, Amon sinned even more (II Chronicles 33:23 NLT).

Habits resemble chains, but they’re also choices. Unhealthy or even dangerous patterns of behavior are learned but can be unlearned with God’s assistance. Children of alcoholics and abusers often repeat their parent’s behavior because that’s what they observe as the norm. Uncontrolled anger and manipulation are two more unhealthy chains.
 
But these and other devastating chains can be broken by depending on the power of God’s indwelling Spirit, through relationships with friends who will share their wisdom and hold us accountable, and-when necessary, by sessions with Christian counselors.

Are there unhealthy chains you’re having difficulty breaking? Seek God’s guidance about what steps to take to be free from the chain’s hold.

Prayer: Thank You Father for offering to break the strongholds that chain us. Give us courage to let You free us from binding forces.

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Tuesday, May 28, 2013

The World’s Best Mirror by Martin Wiles

Turns out, the world’s clearest mirror isn’t a mirror after all.

I’m rarely pleased anymore when I glance in the mirror. My chest has taken up residence in my stomach area. My once muscular arms are now a little flabby, and my ears are more elongated. Most of my hair tired of my head long ago and fled to my nose and ears. And since my eyesight has deteriorated, my entire image is slightly blurred.

I’ve discovered my clearest mirror doesn’t hang on a wall but sits beside my recliner. All Scripture is inspired by God… It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people. (II Timothy 3:16-17 NLT). Origin makes the Bible reliable. It doesn’t contain the mere ideas of men who wrote something down for posterity but enshrines God-given words, ideas, and concepts.

God’s Word shows me who I was-a sinner with a spiritual death sentence placed on my head and who would eventually be confined to a very unpleasant eternity. My lot was everyone’s, for all have sinned (Romans 3:23).

But God’s Word also shows me who I am with Christ-a saint. Of course, I’m not perfect in practice, but I am in position. The Father sees me in Christ-the One who lived perfectly and died spotlessly.

More importantly, God’s record reflects who I can be. As I meditate on the Word, God’s Spirit shows me his standards so I can compare them with my practice. Furthermore, God assures me I can do all things through Christ. This includes making the necessary changes that enable me to more perfectly reflect him.

Let God’s Word reflect your present image so you can align it with God’s picture of you.

Prayer: Father we praise You for delivering Your perfect Word to us so we can see our reflection.

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Monday, May 27, 2013

Ham and Potatoes by Michelle Wiles

 
Ingredients
 
1 PKG. CUBED HAM

2 1/2 LBS. RED POTATOES

1 ONION (CHOPPED)

1 STICK BUTTER

SALT/PEPPER
 
Directions

SAUTE HAM AND ONIONS WITH 2 T. VEGETABLE OIL.

WASH AND CHOP POTATOES INTO SMALL CHUNKS.

PLACE HAM MIXTURE AND POTATOES IN AN ALUMINUM LINED PAN.

SPRINKLE WITH SALT/PEPPER.

CUT THE BUTTER INTO CHUNKS AND PLACE ON TOP OF HAM AND POTATOES.
 
COVER WITH ALUMINUM FOIL.

BAKE AT 375 FOR 40-45 MINS.
 
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The Grace Principle by Martin Wiles

I’m a pretty decent guy. I’ve never beaten my wife, abused my kids, or dishonored my parents-at least not since I was a teenager. I make an effort to love all people, and I’ve worked in numerous community organizations. I have a rich Christian heritage, and for most of my life have faithfully served God. I’ve visited the sick, prayed over the dying, preached funerals, and performed weddings. Surely all these tasks-along with numerous other honorable efforts, deserve God’s grace...or do they?

Paul probably felt the same. His accolades were impressive. Circumcised the eighth day, born into a pure-blooded Jewish family, a Pharisee, strict obedience to the Jewish law, persecutor of the church…

Eventually he realized his trophies had nothing to do with receiving God’s grace. Even though I used to blaspheme the name of Christ. In my insolence, I persecuted his people. But God had mercy on me because I did it in ignorance and unbelief (I Timothy 1:13 NLT).

God’s grace is undeserved and unattainable by my good works. This element of God’s grace is difficult to accept because our culture ingrains us with a works rewards philosophy. I perform at my job and my employer hands me a paycheck. I run faster than my competitors, and I receive a trophy. God rewards with salvation but not for anything I’ve done.

God delivers his grace simply because he loves. I can’t perform enough to earn it initially, nor can I obligate him thereafter to continue giving it. But his grace is also what sustains me. It carries me through tribulations, invigorates me for his work, and assures my eternity.

If you’ve been performing good deeds hoping to earn God’s grace, change your philosophy by remembering it’s a free gift given to all who ask.

Prayer: Thank You merciful Lord for giving us what we don’t deserve: forgiveness, mercy, and a beautiful eternity.


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Saturday, May 25, 2013

When Tragedy Strikes by Martin Wiles

A family loses their beloved patriarch; two weeks later the matriarch follows. A woman in her thirties dies suddenly of a massive heart attack. Innocent people are killed at a well-known marathon. A father incurs a deadly infection after surgery and never leaves the hospital.

I always seem to have more questions than answers when tragic occurrences crop up. Death is a daily part of someone’s life and so is tragedy. But how to cope with the unanswered questions is the dilemma.


For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven…A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to grieve and a time to dance (Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4 NLT).

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’s book, On Death and Dying, introduced the world to the now famous five stages people experience on the way to coping with and finally accepting their fear of death. While the stages of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance are common, not everyone travels in that order or necessarily experiences each one of them. 

Grieving in the face of tragedy is a natural process just as showing expressions of joy is when things are going well. I’ve traveled the road personally, and my profession has given me numerous opportunities to traverse it with others. The stages are dreadfully real.

While I don’t always have the answers for me or anyone else, this much I know: God loves, gives me strength for anything he initiates or endorses, brings good from apparent bad situations, provides a peace I can’t begin to comprehend, and promises me an eternal home where tragedy is absent. This knowledge-along with experience, helps me endure and overcome tragic circumstances.

Learn to trust God in the midst of tragedies rather than falling captive to enslaving emotions and habits.

Prayer: Merciful Father, when tragedy attempts to twirl us to other things for help in coping, rotate our hearts and emotions toward You.

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Friday, May 24, 2013

God’s Discipline by Martin Wiles

I didn’t enjoy it, but for the first 18 years of my life, my parents disciplined me in an attempt to form my behavior.

My parents didn’t debate the merits of discipline or of their favorite form-spanking. Correction was a no-brainer, and “Spare the rod spoil the child” was an integral part of their child-rearing philosophy. Though never abused, my pride was definitely reigned in regularly with a hand or belt to my backside. Most of the time I knew I deserved the discipline, but on occasion I thought they were purely wrong…even though they never admitted it.

My disciplinary techniques with my children varied more in degree than in form. I wasn’t a perfect disciplinarian, and when I made a mistake in the severity of the discipline…or even in the discipline itself, I apologized.

I don’t necessarily enjoy God’s discipline either, but at least I know he’s the perfect parent and his correction is flawless as well. For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness (Hebrews 12:10 NLT).

God uses various methods of discipline for various reasons. My particular action, the severity of it, and God’s intended goal all enter into the equation. Unlike my imperfect discipline, God’s is always fair and just.

Good discipline also contains a teaching element, and God’s is perfectly designed to make me re-think what I’ve done, said, or thought that was contrary to his will and plan. Healthy disciplinary tactics are redemptive. God always has my best interests in mind and desires that I enjoy his best.

Let God’s discipline form you into a better person by rather than rebelling against it.

Prayer: We praise You Father for loving us enough to care when we go astray. Encourage us to allow Your discipline to move us back on track.

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Paid in Full by Martin Wiles

Words can’t express the relief I experienced when I finally received the title in the mail.

Out of necessity and desire, I purchased my first car when I was fourteen. I financed it for four long years which was all my teenage life. When the last few payments were in sight, finances became tight, so I re-financed it for two more years. High mileage dazzled the odometer by the time it was paid for, but it was a joyous day when the final payment was made.

Receiving the “Paid in Full” notice for something you’ve labored diligently to pay for is exhilarating, and the writer of Hebrews reminds us that Jesus made the final payment on our sin debt. Unlike those other high priests, he does not need to offer sacrifices every day…But Jesus did this once for all when he offered himself as the sacrifice for the people’s sins (Hebrews 7:27 NLT).

I can only imagine what living in Old Testament times would’ve been like. Sacrifice after sacrifice…week after week…year after year. No assurance that what I was doing paid God anything in full…especially my sin debt. The good acts only covered my sin until a better payment could be made.

With Jesus’ death on the cross, sin’s payment was “Paid in Full.” No more sacrifices are needed. I can’t work to earn God’s love, nor will he let me into heaven because of the good works I’ve done. This is what makes Christianity unique and separates it from other world religions. No grand scales. No tally list. Just a simple question: “What did you do with Jesus?”

My good deeds are only acts of appreciation for the ultimate price Christ paid for my salvation. Have you received your “Paid in Full” notice?

Prayer: We praise You Heavenly Father for sending Your Son to pay our sin debt in full. Help us live in the joy and freedom of forgiveness.

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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Never a Failure by Martin Wiles

Failure? Success? A matter of definition but also perspective.

Winston Churchill failed the sixth grade and was defeated in every public office he ran for but at 62 became Britain’s Prime Minister. Thomas Edison’s teachers told him he was too stupid to learn, but after 1,000 failed attempts, he created a light bulb that worked. Harland David Sanders had his chicken rejected by more than 1,000 restaurants, but the image of the “Colonel” is now plastered worldwide on KFC restaurants. R. H. Macy had a history of failing businesses but eventually landed the largest department store in the world.


Some may interpret Paul’s stint at Thessalonica as a failure, but he labeled it a success. His preaching aroused the Jewish leader’s ire, and their jealousy led to a riotous search to locate and deliver him to a mob. Though he fled for his life, he later wrote, You yourselves know, dear brothers and sisters, that our visit to you was not a failure (I Thessalonians 2:1 NLT).

Losing a business, not getting the patent, being rejected by a publisher, having a home foreclosed on, listening to a spouse say “I don’t love you anymore.” All these scenarios and others may cause some to label us failures, but what some brand a failure isn’t by God. He measures success by a different formula.

Obedience to God and to the tasks he assigns me in life constitutes success. He measures my effort and motives rather than my results. I can do all things he gives me to do because he provides guidance and wisdom as well as power from his indwelling Spirit. I don’t have to fear the final accounting because my success is based on Jesus’ success.

Let your position in Christ be the measuring stick by which you judge your success.

Prayer: Thank You Lord Jesus that we’re more than conquerors in You. With You as our Savior, we will never fail.

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Different is Okay by Martin Wiles

Different is okay now; but it wasn’t always.

Peer pressure is real. The pressures of elementary school seem tame when compared to the present, but they were intense then. A certain brand of tennis shoes, a particular name on my jeans, or letting the lazy students who were bullies copy my homework or gaze on my test. Pressures were more intense in the teen years. Drinking, smoking, and using drugs were the big three. In adulthood, the pressures became more subtle but were just as penetrating. Re-think what I believed about God, cheat on my wife, fudge on my income tax return, steal from the boss, and call in sick when I wasn’t. Sometimes I gave in because I didn’t want to be different.

Israel entered a period when they didn’t like different either. Finally, all the elders of Israel met at Ramah to discuss the matter with Samuel…Give us a king to judge us like all the other nations have (I Samuel 8:4-5 NLT). Israel was a theocracy, so their request was a rejection of God. He granted their wish, but didn’t remove the consequences.

The nature of Christianity entails living differently. God requires me to separate myself from impure and unholy things (II Corinthians 6:17). At salvation, he pronounced me holy through my acceptance of Jesus’ sacrifice, and living as if I’m holy should follow. I can’t shadow the crowd because the crowd might be wrong.

I’ll admit-different isn’t always comfortable. Peer pressure…in whatever form it appears, is sometimes difficult to resist, but God provides the strength I need to adhere to his guidelines. I may be labeled and avoided because I’m distinctive, but God places his soothing salve of comfort on rejection’s emotional hurts.

Is different okay for you? If not, trust God for the courage to let it be.

Prayer: We acknowledge, eternal God, Your call for us to act and think differently. Give us courage to follow You regardless of how it makes us appear to others.

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Monday, May 20, 2013

Farmhouse BBQ Muffins by Michelle Wiles

 
1 CAN BUTTERMILK BISCUITS

1LB. GROUND BEEF

½ C. KETCHUP

3 T. BROWN SUGAR

1 T. VINEGAR

½ TSP. CHILI POWDER

1 C. SHREDDED CHEDDAR CHEESE

FLATTEN EACH BISCUIT INTO A 5” CIRCLE.

PRESS IN BOTTOM AND SIDES OF GREASED MUFFIN PAN.

BROWN BEEF AND DRAIN.

MIX ALL INGREDIENTS EXCEPT CHEESE.

PLACE IN MUFFIN PAN AND TOP WITH CHEESE.

BAKE AT 375 FOR 18-20 MINS.
 
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What Are Problems Good For? by Martin Wiles

I was there again. Wal-Mart. Once my favorite place…but not anymore. 

We were ready to check out, but there were only a few registers open. My wife asked that horrifying question: “Want to go through the self check out?” Going through this line is always a disaster. Sure enough, every third item scanned produced a message requiring assistance.


Our bags were piling up when the attendant asked if we were making a split transaction. We were, but the machine wasn’t currently processing them. Our transaction was cancelled, and we were forced to unbag and re-check our groceries through a normal register. One hour later, we finally hustled out the door.

When assaulted by small and large dilemmas, I often wonder what problems are good for. We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character (Romans 5:3-4 NLT).

Endurance-sometimes translated patience, is a virtue and a good trait for others to observe in me. But I’ve learned it’s taught not caught-and through episodes I’m usually not fond of. Like standing in line at Wal-Mart for an hour, or through dealing with a strong willed child, or by having to care for an aging parent who still thinks they’re capable of handling their affairs.

Problems and trials are beneficial because they teach me patience, and this is a spiritual fruit that should hang from my life’s branches (Galatians 5:22-23). Though it’s taken a while, God has taught me to thank him instead of complain about my problems. As promised, he continually brings some good from them that builds my character and fortifies me mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Instead of running from your problems or complaining about them, let God teach you through them.

Prayer: Merciful Father, even though we may not enjoy life’s problems, we trust You to teach us truths from them and build our character with them.

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Saturday, May 18, 2013

Watched by God by Martin Wiles

Winding the watch strapped around my wrist is a thing of the past. A battery now keeps it ticking for several years with no need for my involvement. Touching it is only necessary twice a year when we enter or exit Daylight Savings Time.

Deism is a theological position that was held by many of America’s early leaders. Though referred to as atheists by more traditional Christians, deists rejected atheism. But they did have a different view of God. Deists imagined him as the universe’s master clock-winder. He cranked up the universe in the beginning and is now sitting idly by watching it peter down.

Seems like a pessimistic position…and it’s certainly not biblical. Now go and call together all the elders of Israel. Tell them…I have been watching closely, and I see how the Egyptians are treating you (Exodus 3:16 NLT).

Though God engineered the Israelites initial voyage into Egypt, he certainly wasn’t oblivious to the taxing slavery they were presently enduring. He saw…and he intervened. Just as my spring wound watches wouldn’t run without daily involvement, so this world won’t either without God’s touch. He established the laws of nature that keep it functioning, but it takes his daily finger caressing the stem.

But God’s involvement extends beyond the big things to the little pieces of my insignificant life. Confidence of this is what gives me strength to face each day and all it might generate. Knowing God gives me power to face daily tests keeps me putting one foot in front of the other. Realizing his hand is in all the details of my life-large and small, encourages me to keep keeping on in spite of difficulties and daily challenges.

Let the reality that you are watched by God give you a different perspective on life.

Prayer: Thank You Father for noticing every detail of our lives and for giving us power to overcome whatever wobbles down our path.

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Friday, May 17, 2013

Shine Where You Are by Martin Wiles

One at a time, they filed nervously up to the speaker’s podium. With shaky voices, they began their list of thank yous…to parents, grandparents, friends, the headmaster, teachers, custodian. Wait a minute…the custodian? Not that being a custodian isn’t an extremely crucial and honorable profession. I’ve just never heard one thanked in a public ceremony before.

I teach at a small Christian school, and Senior Chapel Day is an annual observance that draws a crowd of friends and family members. I thought it odd on this particular occasion that so many of the soon-to-be-graduated seniors would acknowledge our custodian. From their descriptions of him, he appeared more along the lines of a counselor than a person who sweeps and mops our floors, empties our trash, and cleans up our messes.


Jesus challenged his followers to imitate the actions of this modest servant of God. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father (Matthew 5:16 NLT).

I admit-I’ve not always enjoyed shining where God has placed me. But I’ve learned that where God puts me is not the most important matter in my life’s puzzle…it’s what I make of where he puts me. Making good use of every life situation-or predicament, entails shining for him. And when I shine others will notice the One who enables me to shine whether I’m in dire straits or pleasant places. Whether I’m pushing a broom, emptying trash cans, teaching students, or sitting behind a leather desk on the 50th floor of an office building making life changing decisions won’t matter.

So go ahead…shine where God puts you rather than complain about it not being what you’d rather do. You never know…you might be influencing an entire school.

Prayer: Lord of grace and mercy, help us be content where You situate us and shine brightly where You plant us.

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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Catch the Vision by Martin Wiles

There are some things I enjoy sharing, but presently this wasn’t one of them. As an elementary age student, getting glasses was a horrible experience.

Glasses may be stylish now, but they weren’t when I procured them. Manufacturers constructed atrocious frames, and-unless they were old, people who wore glasses were called “four eyes” and made fun of. My experience was similar. Receiving the news that I needed them wasn’t exciting.

Jesus told a story about a servant who wasn’t excited about his news either. But the third servant brought back only the original amount of money and said, ‘Master, I hid your money and kept it safe (Luke 19:20 NLT). His boss had left on a trip and entrusted him and others with investment responsibilities. Each one performed well except him. He neglected his duty because he didn’t share his master’s vision and was selfish. The end result: he lost his opportunity.

When there’s no vision, businesses flounder, community organizations deteriorate, and investments dwindle. When spiritual vision is lacking, similar things happen. I flounder around with no divine aims and goals, and the quality of my walk with Christ deteriorates.

God has a general vision for everyone, but realizing his specific plan for me requires asking him to share it. That’s followed by allowing his Spirit to guide me to goals that will help me reach it. Simply knowing God has a vision for me accomplishes nothing.

Living out God’s vision for your life is rewarding and exciting and leads to a sense of fulfillment not discovered anywhere else. As a Christian, his vision for you will somehow relate to his vision for all believers: spread his love worldwide and teach others to obey his commands. Have you discovered God’s plan for you? Are you living it?

Prayer: Thank You Father for choosing to use us in Your worldwide plan of making Your love known to others. Guide us to the specific spot where You want us to work.

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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Love’s Proof by Martin Wiles

If I didn’t know my wife, I might very well pass her by without speaking.

In the South, speaking and waving to others-even people we don’t know, is considered a courteous act of kindness. It’s part of Southern charm and a way of life that’s been culturally ingrained for many years. But in other parts of the United States…and world, such friendliness is uncharacteristic. I’ve visited large cities and passed hundreds of people without receiving a nod, smile, wave, or “Hey, how are you doing?” If my wife was one of those nameless strangers, I’d no doubt pass her by like the others.

But since my wife is well-known to me, my actions toward her are different. I speak to her, kiss her, hold her hand, take her out to eat, buy her cards and presents for special occasions, periodically cook for her, help her clean the house, etc. And because she knows me, she reciprocates with similar actions.

According to Jesus, the same should materialize when we know him. If you love Me, you will keep My commandments (John 14:15 NASB).

Obedience proves belonging-at least in my relationship with Christ. Just as children generally want to please their parents through obedience, so believers want to please their heavenly Father through the same process.

My obedience should also be genuine, not just rote motions. Jesus has the unique ability to see through superficiality. He told Nicodemus he needed to be born again even though Nicodemus didn’t come asking that question. He told the rich young man to sell all his possessions if he wanted eternal life even though doing so isn’t a requirement of everyone.

Authentic love is demonstrated through unadulterated obedience, not by hypocritical mimicking. Enjoy life to the fullest by obeying God’s commands. 

Prayer: Dear God, remind us Your commands are given for our good, and that obeying them proves our love for You and is the only way to abundant life.

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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Confession: Good for the Soul by Martin Wiles

A short nap has the power to refresh, and I’m one that has no trouble taking one.

Naps run in my family…I’m not sure that they aren’t genetically transmitted. No more than five minutes after my grandfather would sit down, his head would begin to bobble and his eyes would close. My father followed suit. Where they were sitting was immaterial. Lack of motion equaled closed eyes and a short nap. I’ve inherited the gene. Straight chair? Recliner? Not an issue. And studies have shown what I’ve always known: naps are beneficial. People who take short power naps are more productive.

Spiritual naps, however, are different. Jesus’ disciples took a snooze while he was praying in the Garden of Gethsemane, but their physical siesta was indicative of a spiritual snoozing problem and received a rebuke from him. Then he returned to the disciples and found them asleep. He said to Peter, “Couldn’t you watch with me even one hour (Matthew 26:40 NLT)?”

Our need for others is a vital part of staying awake spiritually. The disciples may not have known how much they desperately needed Jesus and each other. After all, they had previously argued among themselves about which of them was the greatest. Failure to stay awake placed them in the precarious position of falling into temptation.

Confessing my sins to God and other conscientious believers reminds me of my weaknesses and of my tendency to fall asleep spiritually if I’m not careful. Sharing my spiritual battles with fellow believers also tweaks my alertness level-making me more energetic, and also enhances the spiritual journey of the one sharing with me. I’m not a Lone Ranger, and when I try to be I’ll quickly find myself taking a nap.

Lean on others to help you stay awake spiritually.

Prayer: Thank You Lord Jesus for not leaving us alone to live the Christian life. Thank You for the presence of Your Spirit and the companionship of others.

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Monday, May 13, 2013

Barbecue Pulled Pork by Michelle Wiles

 
1 10 lb. Boston Butt


Butt Rub Seasoning

Rub Butt Rub over entire roast.

Place in crock pot.

Fill 3/4s full with water.

Cook on low for 6 to 8 hours.

Pull apart.

Serve with your favorite barbeque sauce or mix sauce in meat.
 
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A Conformed Rebel by Martin Wiles

In general, I’m a conformist, but there are times when I’m a rebel at heart.

Take driving for example. I’ve always obeyed the speed limit-even when I was a teenager. The only traffic ticket I’ve ever received was a warning for speeding, but even that was unintentional. I had just placed oversized tires on my truck, and they misgauged the speedometer. I also drive on the right side of the road, face forward when I do, and wear a seat belt even though I don’t particularly enjoy the strap over my shoulder.

But there are times when I want to break driving laws. Drive 90 in a 70. Not slow down for the 45 mph sign posted in the middle of nowheresville. Ram into the back of the idiot who cut me off. Slam on brakes for the tailrider behind me. And just have a good case of road rage.

But I contain my rebel spirit because God says, Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think (Romans 12:2 NLT).

My drive to conform to God’s commands and not the world’s begins with thoughts. What I think on long enough will eventually spill over into actions…good or bad, unless I allow God to change my way of thinking. Actions are initially just one time occurrences, but repeated actions become a lifestyle and eventually form character-the person we truly are not necessarily the person people see. Lifestyles in turn have consequences. An obedient lifestyle summons God’s blessings while disobedient living invites his loving wrath.

Being a conformist is admirable as long as it’s God’s directives we’re adhering to. Let God renew your mind daily so you can experience his best for you.

Prayer: Father in heaven, we give our minds to Your conforming work so our actions will in turn honor You.

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Saturday, May 11, 2013

Easy Meatloaf by Michelle Wiles

 
1 1/4 lb. Ground Chuck


1 Egg

1 Onion (Chopped)

1C. Milk

1C. Bread Crumbs

Salt/pepper

Mix all together and place in a loaf pan.

Topping:

1 small can Hunt's Tomato Sauce

1 T. Prepared Mustard

1/4 C. Brown Sugar

Mix together and pour on top of meatloaf.

Bake 375 for 1 Hour
 
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Church Indestructible by Martin Wiles

I will soon have lived 53 years, but I’ve never possessed anything that was indestructible.

As a young child, wind-up toys and Tonka heavy equipment were my favorites. But the wind-ups eventually broke forcing the Jack-in-the-box to stay in his box. And the trucks and earth movers eventually stopped moving and the tires wobbled off. Chains on my favorite bicycles broke, and the handlebars rusted. Holes appeared in my favorite Converse tennis shoes, and scratches materialized on my best record albums.

Destruction followed me into the teenage and adult years. My first car accumulated too many miles, eventually showed the effects of aging, and had to be traded for a newer model. Lawn mowers died and required repairs that were too cost prohibitive. At the moment, my baby book is probably the only thing I’ve owned since birth-and even that is someday doomed to deteriorate. 

But Jesus told one of his disciples about something that would last forever-the church. Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means ‘rock’), and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it (Matthew 16:18 NLT).

What was indestructible wasn’t Peter or any of his descendants. Nor was it the Protestantism, Catholicism, or Anglicanism that the church eventually evolved into. The rock of indestructibility was Peter’s confession that Jesus was the Messiah…the anointed One who would make the ultimate and final sacrifice for humanity’s sins.

God’s church is composed of any and everyone who makes a similar confession. When we join it, we become part of a living organism built and powered by God. Of all the things we hold dear that will eventually quit on us, God’s church never will. Join the indestructible force.

Prayer: Thank You Father for creating an entity that the forces of evil or nature cannot destroy.

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Friday, May 10, 2013

Expect the Best by Martin Wiles

She was a shut-in, and he was an unemployed middle-age man who farmed part-time and hunted and fished the remainder. What they shared was a caustic case of pessimism.

Mary* and John* were members of a church I pastored. She was the mom and a shut-in, and he was the son. Since I visited shut-ins regularly, I was in their home monthly. They were sweet people but extremely negative. My upbeat moods were squashed quickly after a brief visit. I found myself dreading the stop because I knew I’d have to muster an extra dose of optimism to survive.

Jesus’ followers occasionally wondered why they couldn’t do the works he did, but he encouraged them: I tell you the truth, anyone who believes in me will do the same works I have done, and even greater works, because I am going to be with the Father (John 14:12 NLT).

Pessimistic outlooks are affected by personality, self-image, and childhood experiences. Type A personalities tend to be more optimistic than Type B. They’re in control, and the sky is the limit. On the other hand, people with poor self concepts trend toward pessimism. Self-image is partially formed by childhood messages. Negative messages from parents and significant others such as “You’ll never amount to anything” or “You were a mistake” can easily lead to a cynical outlook in adulthood. 

But poor self-images can be turned into optimistic outlooks by remembering we’re God’s creations, and he doesn’t make mistakes. The presence and power of his Spirit in our lives will empower us for any life assignment he bequeaths. God’s presence also ensures success, but the success is by his definition, not ours or society’s.

Take a chance on optimism, and say with Paul, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13).

Prayer: Thank You Almighty God that with Your power we can expect the best for that is what You always deliver. Help us grab it with gusto.
*Names changed to protect individuals identity.

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Thursday, May 9, 2013

When Life Gets Complex by Martin Wiles

Teaching students to identify a simple sentence is usually an easy task, but understanding compound and complex sentences is more challenging.

Simple sentences contain a subject and verb and express a complete thought. Compound sentences are made up of two simple sentences connected by a coordinating conjunction. But a complex sentence is well….complex. It hosts an independent clause (sentence) and a dependent clause. Both have subjects and verbs, but dependent clauses are dependent on independent clauses, making them more difficult to understand.

As complex sentences are difficult to dissect, so my life sometimes appears the same. What comforts me in those periods is that God created everything through him (Jesus), and nothing was created except through him (John 1:3 NLT).

There have been episodes in my life when I’ve thought, “I just can’t figure things out, and I’m not sure God can either.” It wasn’t any one particular thing that was extremely difficult (simple sentence), it was just that there were multiple things bouncing around simultaneously. (I had myself a complex sentence. It may have even been a compound complex sentence.)

While my life occasionally seems complex to me, God hasn’t lost control or the ability to give me control over it if I simply respond appropriately. Life only gets complex if I leave God out of the equation by living as if he doesn’t exist or by not asking his opinion when there’s more than one sentence involved.

I’ve learned through many life experiences that God is big enough to handle any situation-whether it’s just one or a combination of several occurring simultaneously. If God can create a universe and hold it together, he’s capable of holding your life together as well. Trust him instead of your own ingenuity when life gets complex.

Prayer:  Eternal Creator, when life baffles us, prompt us to turn to the One who can dissect our apparent dilemmas.

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Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Underestimating God by Martin Wiles

There sat a jar full of jelly beans. My task? To guess the correct number so I could win a gift certificate. Of course, I didn’t win. I always either over or underestimate.

When it comes to God’s assignments, I also tend to underestimate my abilities. Gideon did too. The generation of Israelites who followed Joshua forgot God and the things he had done for Israel. God rewarded their disobedience by allowing foreign invaders to raid their land.

Among the marauders were Midianites. When they appeared, the Israelites fled to the mountains and caves and watched as their crops were destroyed. Life was at its lowest ebb when God chose Gideon to rescue Israel. His response demonstrated typical underestimation. How can I rescue Israel? My clan is the weakest in the whole tribe of Manasseh, and I am the least in my entire family! (Judges 6:15 NLT)

Gideon’s response is often mine-“How can I…?” “I have no talents.” “Someone else can do a better job.” All responses that demonstrate low faith level. Like having low fuel in the tank, it won’t take me very far and evidences I’ve underestimated God’s ability through me. 

But there’s a positive side to underestimating God. When I recognize I have and acknowledge my insufficient faith level, it spurs me on to action. If the low fuel light appears in my car’s message center, I quickly locate a gas station.

Recognizing I’ve underestimated God should change my mindset. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, but the key is through Christ.

Gideon may have felt more comfortable with 32,000 soldiers, but God demonstrated how 300 with him is a more sizable force. Don’t underestimate what God can do through you. Tasks aren’t difficult or impossible when viewed through faith’s lenses.

Prayer: Merciful Savior, build our faith and trust in You so we’ll never underestimate You or ourselves when You assign us to a task.
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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

 
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Who is Jesus? by Martin Wiles

“Who am I?” I considered it when an adolescent. Most teenagers do.

Psychologist Erik Erikson coined the term “identity crisis,” and defined it as failure to achieve ego identity during adolescence. During the Identity Cohesion versus Role Confusion psychological stage, physical growth and sexual maturation occur as well as ideas about ourselves and what others think of us. Solving the crisis enhances our self-image, but failing to lets the “Who am I” question hang on beyond adolescence. Struggles to “find ourselves” can create a negative identity involving crime, drug use, and the inability to make decisions about the future.

Many were confused about Jesus. Messiah was supposed to ride into town on a white horse and conquer the Jew’s enemies. Jesus didn’t, and people began to question his identity. When he questioned the disciples about who people said he was, he received responses such as Elijah, John the Baptist, Jeremiah, or one of the other prophets. When he asked their opinion, Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God (Matthew 16: 16 NLT).”

Jesus is the only begotten Son of God. He has always existed and is the unique One. He was also the sinless Son of God. Had he not been, he couldn’t have accomplished what the Father sent him to do-die for the sins of the world. Under the Old Testament covenant, people continually offered sacrifices for their sins, but all the offerings were imperfect. Nor could they accomplish their intended end-forgiveness. Only a perfect sacrifice would do, and this was offered in the person of Jesus.

Jesus knew who he was and why the Father sent him. Since he had no identity crisis, he plunged ahead with full force to accomplish the Father’s plan. You too can discover what God has in store for you because of who you are.

Prayer: Father in heaven, we believe You have good plans for us. Reveal them, and give us courage to carry them out with the faith that You’re always by our side.

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Monday, May 6, 2013

Taco Ring by Michelle Wiles


Ingredients
2 PACKS CRESCENT ROLLS
     
1 POUND GROUND BEEF

1 ENVELOPE TACO SEASONING

SALSA

1 CUP SHREDDED CHEESE

SHREDDED LETTUCE

TOMATOES

GREEN ONIONS

1 CUP SOUR CREAM

Directions
BROWN BEEF AND DRAIN. ADD TACO SEASONING.

UNROLL 2 PACKAGES OF ROLLS. 

ON A COOKIE SHEET, PLACE CRESCENT ROLL WEDGES IN A CIRCLE.

PLACE WIDE SIDE OF EDGES TOWARD THE MIDDLE AND POINTED EDGE TOWARD THE OUTSIDE.

ADD CHEESE TO GROUND BEEF MIX AND STIR.

PLACE BEEF ON CRESCENT ROLLS, AND WRAP POINTED EDGES AROUND THE MEAT MIXTURE SO IT FORMS A RING.

BAKE AT 375 DEGREES FOR 12 MINUTES.

WHEN BAKED, REMOVE FROM COOKIE SHEET AND PLACE RING ON A PLATTER.

ON INSIDE OF RING, PLACE LETTUCE, TOMATOES, AND GREEN ONIONS.

SERVE SOUR CREAM AND SALSA ON SIDE.

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