Experiencing God Through Forgiveness

The hurt cut deep. After all it was his nephew.


Emmanuel* was on the wrong road. Though raised in a Christian family, he decided to take a detour down a dead end road. Drugs cost him a place to stay when his parents discovered he was using at home. His uncle seemed his only hope, but he quickly messed that up too. While they were away, he stole a priceless family heirloom and a gun and hocked them both for drug money. Uncle Jamie* discovered the missing shotgun which started a search to see if other items were missing. And they were.


When confronted, Emmanuel was in no mood to talk and immediately denied the thefts. Jamie had no choice. He was his nephew but he was untrustworthy. So he did what Emmanuel’s parents did-put him out.


Jamie could have reported the theft and made his nephew pay. Perhaps even had him jailed. He chose to suffer the loss, forgive and maintain the relationship-although from a guarded post.


John ties love of God and forgiveness together: If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. (I John 4:20)

Some propose the ability to love God and withhold forgiveness. I’ve tried it several times and known numerous others who have too. Some convincing themselves they have succeeded in doing the impossible. Others not aware they are even trying.


True love is only comprehended by understanding God’s forgiveness. When I comprehend my sin’s offense against God and realize his willingness to forgive completely and permanently, it becomes impossible to withhold from others what God has unconditionally given. Forgiving others enables me to see God’s face in them as Jacob did in his brother Esau’s. When I forgive-whether people deserve it or not, I learn to appreciate God’s forgiveness.


Instant and continual forgiveness heals relationships-with others and God.


Prayer: Lord Jesus, guide us to those we need to forgive.
*Names changed to protect privacy.

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Grief’s Gain

She sat solemnly with no expression. He wailed loudly. He was a local; she wasn’t. But there was no comfort for either.

Marital problems and alcohol haunted their relationship. She headed to her home state for the weekend, leaving him alone. The accident happened on the return trip. A deer? Too much to drink? Perhaps no one will ever know, but the collision took their child’s life. Now they sat at the funeral-her in shock, him crushed and me wondering what I could say to soothe their pain.

The mom eventually went to jail and I never heard from her again. The dad began coming to church, rededicated his life to God and was serving him and the church faithfully when I left the area. A horrible event with polar responses to tragedy and its accompanying grief.

Solomon proposes grief has redeeming effects: Sorrow is better than laughter, because a sad face is good for the heart. (Ecclesiastes 7:3)
I’ve never been a fan of grief or the circumstances preceding it. After all, who grieves when there’s nothing to grieve over? So I attempt to avoid grief creating circumstances. But my best efforts fail. Making wise decisions, planning for the future, being a good community example and parent, obeying my boss, loving my wife, tending to my health and caring for aging parents cannot prevent tragedies or change other’s actions. And when these impact my life negatively, grief follows.

But grief correctly processed contains potential for gain. Healthy grief accepts the reality of adversity and tragedy. The world’s not perfect nor anyone in it. Life can be made brief by bad decisions, criminal actions, and a decrepit world, but redeeming grief will refine character. What doesn’t destroy us makes us stronger. I know; I watched it mold a dad into more than he ever was or imagined he would be.

When grief strikes, let God bring you gain from it instead of loss.

Prayer: Merciful Lord, in times of grief, when we are tempted to give up on You and ourselves, rekindle our faith in grief’s redeeming power.

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Regret’s Poison

I should have listened, but it was too late. 

College wasn’t in the plans. I wasn’t even fond of high school and proved it by quitting my senior year only to return a few months later when the grass on the other side turned tasteless. I eventually graduated but entered the work world instead of another classroom.

Eight years later, I accepted God’s plan and returned to college as a twenty seven year old, possessing a different outlook on life and education. Among my regrets was paying for what would have earlier been free because of my father’s profession. But regret didn’t prevent my forward move, and eventually I paid the bill.

I’ve been known to long for the good old days when life was simpler. When a loaf of bread was nine cents, a gallon of milk 14 cents and a pound of steak 42 cents. But that was the Great Depression.

Solomon warns of regret’s poison. It keeps us longing for good old days viewed through rose colored glasses. Do not say, “Why were the old days better than these?” For it is not wise to ask such questions. (Ecclesiastes 7:10)

But we have regrets nevertheless. Over failed marriages, misunderstood statements, unwarranted conflicts, poor financial decisions, unforgiveness, soured friendships, and foolish decisions. Not attending college after high school is only one of mine. You probably have a list too. 
Regret imprisons in the past, and while I’m a product of mine I don’t have to be a prisoner. I’ve chosen freedom instead. I can long for what might have been or enjoy what is and can be. Pasts may contain closets full of ugly skeletons, but God’s future is bright and beautiful:  For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)

God renews our future when we allow him to heal past regrets.

Prayer: Lord, teach us to learn from the past but not live there.

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God’s Agenda

I have a daily one; in about four different places. Occasionally I still forget things or the entire schemata falls apart.

Planning is in my genes. My father did, my mom does, and I’ve followed suit. My profession demands it. Dates are entered in Windows calendar, synced with my blackberry and handwritten on a day planner. When someone asks about an activity date I can normally answer.

Those on teams with me learn I live by the rule: “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.” And I encourage them to do the same.

While plans are helpful, having them doesn’t guarantee success or that what is planned will materialize. I once planned to farm. My grandfathers did, and I loved everything about it. It didn’t transpire. I didn’t plan to preach but it happened anyway. The difference was in the agenda I followed.

Jesus’ agenda was stringent. He knew how to draw and disperse a crowd. Revealing his agenda and its requirements always divided the interested: Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me (Matthew 16:24 NIV).

God’s idea of an honorable agenda normally clashes with mine. Pursuing a high paying job, a beautiful wife, children, a large home, several cars, an impressive retirement and investment portfolio, and a bunch of stuff might be my idea of an admirable agenda. God’s might radically differ.

Following God’s agenda requires sacrifice. There was nothing pretty about a cross or giving up what appeared to be life’s essentials to follow Jesus. The disciples did it anyway. Their reward was ridicule, rejection, persecution, misunderstanding and for some martyrdom. But what others classified failure or stupidity, God deemed success.
Worthy agendas are set through prayer and intense meditation on God’s Word and often clash with ours. God’s agenda will position us on paths that honor him and positively impact our world. Let God determine your agenda.

Prayer: Lord, guide us to accept Your agenda regardless of whether it leads where we selfishly want to go.

The Power Of Vision

I wanted to see but couldn’t, so I made another trip to the front of the class.

Like any elementary age boy, I enjoyed the back of the classroom. Trouble was, when the teacher wrote on the chalkboard I couldn’t see. So I carefully crept through the middle of the aisles, copied the material, and made my way back to the desk.

I thought things were under control until the afternoon I was drilled by Mom and given a home version vision test. “Marty, I’m gonna hold this sheet up. Tell me what you can read.” That was nothing.

Life took a nosedive when the optometrist prescribed glasses and gave me the chance to choose frames-all ugly. But the abuse didn’t stop here. Laughter and cat calls of “four eyes” followed, but at least I could see.

Then there was our family vacation to Cherokee, North Carolina, where I discovered how important glasses were. Walking down the street with my parents and enjoying visiting every store, I decided to walk backwards. When I finally turned around, I met a light pole, bending my glasses beyond the ability to wear. The remainder of the trip was blurry.

Limited vision impairs; complete blindness is more challenging: Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. (Proverbs 29:18 KJV)

When there’s no vision or revelation from God, we perish, cast off restraint, flounder, wander aimlessly, become disorderly, and literally run wild. It’s not that God purposefully withholds vision; we just don’t ask to see it. And when I don’t request God’s vision, I do exactly what the verse says: thrash, live undisciplined and lose focus. Life gets blurry just as it does when I remove my glasses.

God reveals his plan when asked, and following his roads-while sometimes overwhelming and difficult, always propels us into a bright future; one we could never envision without his glasses. Ask God to see what you never would otherwise.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, we humbly ask for and willingly accept Your vision of our future.

Created With Purpose

Why am I here? What's my purpose? Questions I've considered. And most everyone else too.

Adolescents contemplate them and the answers normally chart their life's course. Not considering them leads to roller coaster rides with little direction and accompanying unwise decisions.

I faced them as a teenager but never reached clear conclusions. My dad was a preacher. Was it my destiny to be one too? My grandfather drove an ice cream truck, and that too seemed quite appealing, especially living in the steaming South. My mom worked at vehicle dealerships. Perhaps I was destined for award winning salesmanship.

But God revealed his purpose to me before adolescence: Ministry. At twelve I accepted it-but not at fifteen. Then rebelling and going my own way seemed more attractive and fun. So I did for eight years. Then it stopped being enjoyable. My fun wasn't taking me anywhere and the years were accumulating. So I decided to try God's plan. It didn't remove each obstacle or solve every problem, but I had the peace of knowing I was going in the right direction fulfilling my life's purpose.

Paul maintains God equips his children with various gifts and talents. Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly. (Romans 12:6)

While many people possess identical gifts, they are exercised differently because of circumstances, opportunities and personalities. Mine were too but I used them my way-or rather God's way for me.

My conclusion I had purpose was finally reached when I accepted God's design. There's no one else identical to me-or you. And no one can adequately do what God plans for us. This is our time.

God creates with purpose in mind but never forces his plan on us. It's ours to accept or reject. But not without consequence. Success and fulfillment come by doing his plan his way.

Prayer: Father, guide us to discover Your purpose and give us the courage to live it out.

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Honest Estimates

A deafening noise and sudden jerk is all I remember.
I was sitting at a red light in my prized red pickup waiting for the green signal. That’s when it happened. As I raised myself from the seat, I noticed my truck on the wrong side of the road heading the wrong direction. Fortunately no vehicles were coming. It took a few minutes to piece together the details-someone ran a red light, striking the car beside me who in turn hit me.
The entire right side of my beautiful truck was scraped and dented. Repair required two estimates for the insurance company. Knowing a local body shop manager ensured an honest estimate and fantastic repair job. Some body shops think too highly of their services or have steep overheads leading to higher estimates and loss of business.
Honest estimates are important as Paul notes; Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. (Romans 12:3)A higher than normal estimate results in pride: in who we are, what we have or what we can achieve. It’s dangerous, sinful and usually invites God’s intervention. Too insignificant an estimate is equally dangerous and can be the product of derogatory and abusive messages from parents, teachers, spouses and peers, leading to physical, emotional and spiritual dilemmas. 
What’s needed are honest estimates. What others think is not always important. God’s estimate is essential and encouraging. I’m his forgiven child. The slate is wiped clean of every offense I’ve ever committed-past, present and future. I’m no longer under condemnation but live vibrantly knowing nothing can separate me from his love. He’s placed me in the position of “just as if I never sinned.”
Most importantly, my eternity is secure and populated with everyone who has made the same decision to estimate themselves honestly. Don’t fear asking for God’s estimate.
Prayer: When we’re tempted to think less of ourselves than You proclaim, enable us Holy Spirit to estimate our worth correctly.
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The Power Of Forgiveness

Johnny* built a fence, but not for penning animals.

Johnny’s fence was straight and didn’t enclose anything. It had no corners but coursed a straight line between his and his brother’s house. Anger over a perceived wrong built it, and unforgiveness staked the posts securely in the ground. When their mom died, his brother Red* paid for the family home and land, but Johnny thought he inherited it unfairly, overlooking him and the other siblings. To vent his unforgiveness, he built a fence and barely spoke to his brother.

As the years multiplied, Johnny dismantled sections of the fence and occasionally conversed with his brother. When Red died unexpectedly-at a much too premature age, Johnny lamented his unforgiving attitude. But it was too late. Red was gone and he was left with forgiveness he hadn’t expressed.

The prodigal son’s father didn’t wait that long: But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. (Luke 15:20) In fact, he probably forgave his son the moment he committed the offense.

Asking for an inheritance before the father’s death was a serious cultural insult. So was blowing it all on wasteful living and in a foreign land. And the prodigal’s decision to return was probably more out of desperation than desire. But the father acted as if he committed no offense and restored him. He released him from a debt he owed for an offense he committed.

I’ve erected a few fences; ones that brought bitterness, vengeful thoughts, broken relationships, emotional torment and physical illness. Only upon releasing the perpetrator did I discover peace and healing. And this not after apologies. Most times they weren’t in the mix.

To experience healing power, forgiveness must be instant, repeated when necessary, and limitless. Let God direct you to those who need your forgiveness.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, when we’re tempted to withhold forgiveness, remind us of Yours.
*Names changed to protect individual privacy.

Doing Our Best

“It’s just a car,” I thought. “What does it matter if every inch gets clean?” But it did.

Dad had perfectionist tendencies when washing cars. I began helping him as a young boy, but we didn’t have water fights or soap scuffles. It was strictly business. The roof was washed first followed by the windows.

I didn’t understand why I couldn’t wash anywhere I wanted. Dad had a reason. It was foolish to let dirty water run over clean spots making it necessary to wash them again. Thus the reason for starting on top. After washing the roof and windows, we tackled the hood, trunk, sides and wheels in that order. I was amazed by how clean the car was when we finished.

Dad believed what the apostle wrote; In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. (Romans 12:6 NLT)

I’ve noticed I still wash cars the same way Dad instructed, and I taught my children the same. Everything I do is done to the best of my ability. Not because I’m still trying to please my parents or because I think I can earn God’s favor. But because it’s my responsibility to do well what God entrusts to me.

Prophesying, serving, teaching, encouraging, giving, leading, showing kindness and loving are God’s gifts. The list isn’t complete but mastering it takes a lifetime. Speaking God’s Word isn’t always popular, serving and giving require sacrifice, teaching entails preparation, leading those who don’t want to follow is challenging, showing kindness to mean spirited people is difficult, and loving the unlovable tests anyone’s character.

But I’ve learned what I can’t do-and shouldn’t try to do, in my own strength, God can do through me. He provides what’s necessary for any project he delegates or mission he sends me on. The only requirement is trust and obedience.

Are you doing your best with all God gives or just what you enjoy most? Learn to see everything as an opportunity.

Prayer: God, enable us to give You our best and nothing less.

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Simply Simplicity

My three favorite shows as a teenager were, The Andy Griffith Show, The Waltons, and Little House On The Prairie. Simplicity was their calling card.

Early frontier life and the Great Depression forced simple living on the Ingalls and Walton families. Andy however chose simplicity. Sitting with one of his classmates at their high school reunion, he confessed his preference to be a big fish in a small pond. And he proved it by turning down employment opportunities in larger towns, by foregoing the chance to join a big city club, and by enduring scorn from those who left and became famous. 

After encountering one who promised to follow him regardless of where he went, Jesus replied; Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head.(Matthew 8:20) And when he stumbled upon a rich man who claimed perfect obedience to all commands, he said; You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have…then come, follow me. (Luke 18:22)

Though Jesus asked his twelve disciples and a handful of others to leave everything to follow him, it isn’t a requirement for everyone. His followers include wealthy, poor and middle class, and there are challenges for each. The wealthy are tempted to trust in what they’ve amassed, the poor to blame God for their lack, and the middle class to think they can handle life without God’s assistance.

But simplicity of the soul is more crucial than simplicity in lifestyle. The absence of a place to lay his head illustrates Jesus’ total dependence on his Father for his needs. He didn’t fret over comfortable beds with soft linens. Or a mansion with plush possessions to put it in. Whatever God provided was enough. Nor was a diet of delicacies necessary for his meals. His Father provided physical sustenance, and his spiritual nourishment came by doing God’s will.

It’s taken awhile, but I’ve learned not to worry about food, clothing or a place to stay. God promises all to his children in the amount and form he deems best. And what he gives will always be sufficient. Let God teach you to live with as little as it takes to trust him completely.

Prayer: Merciful Father, may we learn to depend on You for every need.

Regaling Our Reputation

Reputations are like credit. Once ruined, restoring them is complicated.

Greg was a distant cousin and rebel who was somewhat of an idol for seventies teenagers with rebellious tendencies. He was into the “hippie scene” complete with long hair, boots, beads, and a Chevy van sporting wide tires, mag wheels and a custom interior. Greg was also into some of the negative facets of the movement: disregard for authority, drugs, alcohol and bumming around. He was popular, but not for honorable reasons. Greg was a rebel with a reputation to match. Unfortunately, his lifestyle eventually led to premature death.

Reputations have a way of influencing others, and Greg’s did me. I couldn’t wait to legally do some of the things he did, have some of the things he had and be as popular as he was. I followed his footsteps to a degree and got what he had: a reputation.

A wise man once said; A good name is better than fine perfume, and the day of death better than the day of birth. (Ecclesiastes 7:1)

Reputations are somewhat like character which is built by integrity. Integrity is doing the right thing when everyone is watching or no one is looking. Integrity forms character which is who we genuinely are. When guarded and preserved, good reputations serve us well in the community, our places of employment and in relationships. When trashed, they do the opposite.

I eventually rebuilt my reputation.  It was difficult and took time. Guarding it initially would have simplified the process. Love, joy, patience, honesty, kindness, faithfulness, self control, punctuality, dependability are traits of good reputations. Only careful choices shape reputations characterized by these qualities, but doing so allows our Jesus lights to shine. And this focuses others in the right direction.

Have you tarnished your reputation with bad choices? It’s never too late to let God help you rebuild character.

Prayer: Father, guide us to make choices that erect rather than demolish our reputations.

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Choosing To Trust

I stood, waiting for her to appear in the doorway and walk down the aisle.

Weddings express ultimate trust. Two people enter a union in which they make promises to each other. Nothing short of death should fracture the alliance. They promise sexual faithfulness and that they will care for each other in sickness and health; when they have much and when they don’t. It’s a journey of togetherness built on trust.

Unfaithfulness is the great trust destroyer. Though it doesn’t have to destroy a relationship, it often does. Hosea proved marriage can survive it. God said; “Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another and is an adulteress. (Hosea 3:1) And he did.

We’re not told the intricate details of the relationship following Gomer’s restoration, but we can imagine how difficult it was for Hosea to trust her again. Gomer had a seedy reputation to begin with, but Hosea married her anyway because God said to. She lived up to her promiscuous character, and now God told Hosea to give her another chance.

Trust is a delicate choice and the foundational element of marriages and friendships. It takes time to build and can be destroyed by one bad decision. When it is, only determination can rebuild it. Because the work is difficult, many choose to dissolve rather than restore relationships.

While we should never trust those who physically, emotionally or sexually abuse us, healthy relationships require it. Trust involves time, sacrifice and vulnerability, bringing rewards that outweigh the requirements. Trustworthy friends and life partners make living enjoyable.

In spite of our best efforts, we will occasionally disappoint those we love. God is the only completely trustworthy friend. When we’re betrayed or fail others, forgiveness should be instant, and restoration-when possible, should follow quickly. Seeking revenge and
holding grudges never reestablishes trust.

God can empower us to forgive even those who have blatantly betrayed out trust.

Prayer: God, when others have destroyed our trust, empower us with a forgiving spirit.
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Need Surfing

Web surfing and channel surfing may be more common, but that’s not the only surfing taking place.

Surfing. Riding the crest and face of waves in an attempt to reach shore. Surfboard. An elongated board or platform used by surfers.  

With the dawn of readily available internet, satellite radio and satellite television, surfing took on new meaning. Now surfing means hopping from one website or station to another; for fun or until what’s looked for is found. 

My profession as a speaker and writer requires internet surfing. And it’s wonderful to have the world’s information at my fingertips. I plug in a few key words and immediately have multiple websites to assist me with ideas I’m working on. I can’t imagine returning to previous methods of gathering information.

Though information is readily available, I still must search for and act on it. The same is true with needs. Ezekiel reflects on what happens when we don’t: So they were scattered because there was no shepherd, and when they were scattered they became food for all the wild animals. My sheep wandered over all the mountains and on every high hill. They were scattered over the whole earth, and no one searched or looked for them. (Ezekiel 34:5-6) Needs abounded, but no one cared.

I don’t have to surf the internet or television to find needs. I can go to church, visit retail stores, take mission trips, talk to local officials or call any number of charitable organizations and immediately be overwhelmed by them. The question is what can or will I do.

What I can do is limited by time and funds. What I will do is governed by attitude. Do I truly care? Am I capable? Am I responsible? Am I available? Soul searching questions I don’t always enjoy answering. God meets our needs, and we can do no less when he gives us the privilege of helping others.

Prayer: Merciful Father, open our eyes to needs around us and open our hands to help.

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Staying The Course

The white blazes disappeared, but we stayed the course.

The Foothills Trail of South Carolina is marked with white blazes. My daughter and I were on the most remote section, following our guide book and looking for landmarks assuring us we were walking the right way. Most importantly, we looked for blazes.

When properly marked, blazes are so close the next one can be viewed from the previous. But the area we entered wasn’t. It had been one mile since our last sighting, and I was getting worried we had missed the trail. We tried a few side trails but quickly returned to the main footpath. Staying the course-even when unsure, finally paid off. Eventually a white blaze appeared, and we uttered a sigh of relief.

Elijah stayed the course. He had the tough job of preaching when no one seemed to care or listen. Disobedience was the norm, and God’s judgment was on the way. After announcing a three year drought to wicked King Ahab, God instructed his prophet to rest by Kerith Brook. It would provide water and ravens would bring him food, but some time later the brook dried up because there had been no rain in the land. (I Kings 17:7)

I’ve had a few brooks dry up. Those times when we do what God says but life takes a nosedive anyway. Job is terminated. Car breaks down and there’s no money for repairs. College investments are tarnished by a sour economy. A child runs away or is tragically killed. A spouse dies. Decisions must be made about aging parents.

Obedience doesn’t assure rosy paths; just God’s blessings-sometime in odd forms. God used unclean birds to feed his prophet and a queen’s death threat to remind him he often works out of the ordinary.

But staying the course even when the next landmark isn’t evident expresses God honoring faith. In the midst of misunderstanding, discouragement and confusion, God will guide you away from avenues leading to darkened dead ends.

Prayer: Merciful Lord, enable us to stay the course even when the route is littered with uncertainty and struggles.
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Tested Faith

Daniel’s teenage world turned upside down.

He and many of his friends were stolen from their families and relocated in a foreign country. But his demeanor and talents soon endeared him to the ruler who enlisted him as an advisor. His ability to interpret dreams led the next king to promote him.

In spite of being far away from home, Daniel enjoyed the good life until the unexpected happened. Jealousy transformed assumed friends into enemies. They hatched a plot designed to bring Daniel’s downfall by persuading the ruler to pass a law forbidding worship of any other gods for thirty days.

But Daniel had integrity. Though surrounded by unbelieving peers, he continued worshipping his God, regardless of the new law. The penalty was a trip to the lion’s den.

Daniel's conniving peers trapped him and the king, but the king was quick to investigate whether Daniel’s God was more powerful. As soon as dawn’s light pierced his window, he ran to the lion’s den: Daniel, servant of the living God, has your God, whom you serve continually, been able to rescue you from the lions? (Daniel 6:20) He had.

Lions used for this purpose were normally starved and tore victims to shreds before they hit the floor. With no light, Daniel could only hear their pacing and panting. He couldn’t shout for help lest he draw their attention.

The lion’s den was a proving ground for Daniel’s faith. I too have encountered some crucibles where I had to decide whether I would follow God or other enticing routes. I don't always make the right choice, but when I do the testing leads to stronger faith. And I find myself cautiously wanting God to prove me again so I can grow more.

God’s proving grounds are seldom enjoyable, but they have purpose. When we obey in spite of misunderstandings, he rewards us with stronger faith, more powerful testimonies, and an enhanced ability to help others on their journey to healthier faith.

Prayer: God, test our faith so we can grow up in our faith.
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Nutrition From The Wrong Place

I do it every time I visit the grocery store even though I know better.


Unhealthy and healthy food. I buy it all. Chips, burgers, fries, fudge, brownies, cake, ice cream, and my favorite, Little Debbie’s. But also veggies, meat, and fruit.


Forty was the year of change. Prior to this I could eat as much of what I wanted without it affecting my body’s shape. Suddenly metabolism slowed causing my chest to fall and protrude in my stomach. Belts, shirts and coats shrunk in the closet.


All food has some nutritional value, and even enough of the healthiest food (anything with no taste) fills the stomach. But while momentarily satisfying, unhealthy food also clogs arteries, increases pounds, raises blood pressure, and causes strokes, heart attacks and diabetes.


It may seem the prophet is challenging us to select healthy foods, but the meaning is deeper: Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good, and your soul will delight in the richest of fare (Isaiah 55:2).


Healthy and unhealthy foods provide only temporary filling. Within a few hours, the stomach growls, food aromas tantalize and every restaurant invites. But there is food and drink that once consumed completely satisfies. The prophet offered it, and Jesus later proposed he was it. (John 6:35)


The offered food is not literal but consumed through a relationship. Once devoured, it will presently and eternally satisfy beyond any food’s capacity. I still crave healthy and unhealthy food and eat both-just in smaller quantities. But I’ve learned spiritual food is more important. I can eat as much as I want and never gain a pound. Nor will it will clog my arteries or make me more susceptible to stroke and heart attack. And it will put a smile on my face and peace in my heart.


God enables us to choose what completely satisfies.


Prayer: Father, when we’re tempted to eat what won’t satisfy, fill us by Your presence.

Convicted By Convictions

Tim opposed it so strongly he walked out on something he desperately needed.

Tim was my neighbor during college. He and I worked at a local grocery store earning desperately needed funds. Then the state legalized the lottery. Tim hated gambling, and his convictions finally got the best of him. “I’m quitting,” he said as he brushed past me.

Not everyone shares Tim’s convictions, but at least he had some. James wrote to those who don’t-or who waver, and cautioned; But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind (James 1:6).

When snuggled in the context of prayer, it simply means we waste our time and God’s by praying for things we aren’t convicted can or will happen. Some ask God for a partner but doubt his ability to supply one. Others request employment but suspect God’s not Job Service.

But prior to prayer comes the convictions themselves. Multitudes have few and the ones they have are subject to reevaluation depending on circumstances. What’s right or wrong depends on the situation or me. And what’s right for me is not necessarily so for you. Not hard to see how the world and my personal life would deteriorate by adopting that philosophy.

So I decided to have some-convictions that is. And I plan to keep them until death we do part. A few are: God is real and loved me enough to allow his Son to die for my sins. His commands are nonnegotiable. What he originally said was wrong still is and always will be. As is what he designated right. And he and others deserve my unmitigated love.

Holding convictions based on God’s truth may be unpopular, but I’d rather be popular with the One who controls my life and prepares my eternity. What convictions do you need to establish or resurrect?

Prayer: Merciful Father, help us be people of conviction who will stand for You even if it requires standing alone.

Learning To Listen

“Richard stop talking and listen!” I said for the hundredth time.
 
He was a challenging student; a bright young man who would not stop talking long enough to listen. I often found myself hoping he was absent because he had a knack for turning quiet students into noisy ones like himself.

I taught Richard for three years, and he never changed. When I moved away, he was still talking and not listening. I suppose every class has its Richard.

Multitasking is possible, but I’m not convinced it is with talking and listening. They involve different parts of the body, one of which has to remain still so the other can function. Like Richard, I too have been guilty of not listening on more than one occasion-to parents, grandparents, teachers and yes, even God.

Paul did a better job: When they came to the border of Mysia, they tried to enter Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus would not allow them to (Acts 16:7). He was interested in hearing God clearly and correctly so he could be where God wanted him-and at the right time.

Proper position and the correct tools are equally important when listening for God’s instructions. Receiving his best and enjoying abundant life don’t happen automatically. Certain criteria must exist.

Quiet times are essential if I expect to hear God. Overloaded schedules and a fast paced environment make them challenging, but what I prioritize materializes. While God can shout over my daily noise, it’s easier to hear him in hushed moments.

And God has certain methods he uses when speaking-primarily his Word and prayer. If I neglect either I’ll plunge over embankments of missed opportunities and turn down dead end streets of wrong timing. Learn to be quiet before God so you can hear his plan.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, enable us to listen more than we talk so Your ways and thoughts will become ours.
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Power To Control

All I saw and heard was a brief flash and high pitch whine. Several hundred feet later, I caught up with the culprits at the red light. Two riders on “crotch rockets,” as some refer to these particular makes of motorcycle. As they waited on the green light, one revved his engine and looked around nervously. I imagined the scene before it unfolded.

The light turned and he raced off. His quick start turned tragic when shifting into second gear. The front end rose like an angry wave, whipping him and his bike to the ground with lightning fury. He quickly discovered he lacked control over what he thought he commanded.

I sometimes feel powerless over thoughts, actions and emotions. Like a motorcycle given too much gas, they careen out of control-rearing up unexpectedly, wobbling in all directions, taking me places I want to avoid. And the ensuing crashes damage me and those close to me.

But there’s good news: We (can) demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. (II Corinthians 10:5)

I can’t control what enters my mind, but I can choose what to do with it and how long I let it hang around. Ungodly thoughts should be captured quickly lest they arouse emotions producing unwanted results. Motorcycles are controlled by balance, brakes and throttle. Minds are fed through eyes, ears, hands, noses and taste buds. Controlling what our senses encounter affects what our minds experience. And mind command delivers power for behavior control.

Let God equip you to control damaging thoughts before they control you.

Prayer: Lord and Master, enable us to control what harms us and others.

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The Bitterness Root

Crows know. Perhaps by instinct, eyesight or a combination of both, but they know.

I enjoy watching a variety of birds frequent our feeders and bird bath. In spite of the numerous other places to find water, they love to bathe, drink and socialize at the bird bath.

Filling the fountain is a simple job, but for some reason-laziness I suppose, I let it remain empty for days at a time. When I finally fill it, the crows immediately know. They’re not sitting in the surrounding trees waiting, but they know. And they quickly descend on the bird bath. Water is necessary, and God drives them to what sustains life.

When times of severe testing arrive-episodes followed by confusion and anxiety over what’s around the next sharp curve, I too follow my instinct. But it doesn’t always drive me to what satisfies. If I’m not careful, my self-efforts to fix things result in bitterness.

The writer of Hebrews warns about the bitterness root: See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. (Hebrews 12:15) And James offers the correct response: Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters whenever you face trials of many kinds. (1:2)

Surrender is opposite of bitterness and God’s desired response. Surrender acknowledges God’s control in initiating or allowing the test. When under his control, matters are never out of control. Surrender submits to whatever he brings that makes us more like him. Bitterness will move one farther from God. Let surrender snuggle you deeply in his loving arms.

Prayer: Lord, when we’re tempted to distrust Your wisdom, remind us Your love always acts in our best interest working all things together for good.

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Bird Talk

It was a warm March morning when he appeared outside my office window.

A soft chirp caught my attention as I was trying to write and worry simultaneously. I peered out the window and noticed a male black capped chickadee. My wife had stuffed a maple syrup can with cotton and placed it on a patio table for decoration. I watched as the small bird hopped from one boll to another, stuffing cotton in his beak between chirps. Occasionally he would pause and glance my way as if to say; Take note, God provides for the nest I’m building.

Answering Job’s despair, God reminds him; Who provides food for the raven when its young cry out to God and wander about for lack of food? (Job 38:41) Jesus said something similar; Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. (Matthew 6:26)

We placed the cotton on our porch never imagining God would use it to care for a bird. God nurtures his creation but often uses us as cogs in the wheel. Nests require trees. God grows them. Animals need food. God prompts me to buy feeders. Water is necessary. God stimulates me to buy a bird bath.

But knowing God cares for animals doesn’t necessarily comfort me. I need to know he’ll do the same for me. And he will. That was God’s point to Job: Quit worrying. I’ve got things under control. Jesus finished the above verse with, Are you not much more valuable than they? When overcome with worry and anxiety, take time to listen to a bird.

Prayer: Merciful God, when the cares of this life overcome us, let Your provision and comfort overcome them.

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Prayer Fix

We were praying but nothing was happening. At least it didn’t seem so.

Normally my wife has clear direction where God is taking us. She did this time too, but no doors opened. We loved our ministry, but it was only part time and the bills were mounting higher. People were helping, but we couldn’t depend on them forever.

So we prayed and sent out resume’s-hundreds of them. No response. Believing God had just the right spot, we kept praying and sending. In his time God rewarded our efforts and opened a door several hours away.    

It wasn’t the first time God appeared silent and lazy. But apparent periods of God’s inactivity teach me to pray continually (I Thessalonians 5:17) or as another version reads, Pray without ceasing.

God never seems to be in as big a hurry as me. When I’m behind on the rent and the utility bill is due, I need action quickly. When the loan company threatens to repossess my car, I need a Red Sea miracle immediately. When my child won’t listen or can’t focus and the teacher is hounding me with calls and emails, I need a quick God-fix.

I’m always praying about something. And that’s God’s plan. Not stop everything I’m doing and get on my knees necessarily but a continual attitude of prayer whether my eyes are closed or my lips are moving. Prayer shows dependence on God. It acknowledges I won’t act if he doesn’t. Prayer confesses my belief God’s in control of world events and those in my life. Acknowledge God’s rule and your dependence through regular prayer time.

Prayer: Lord Jesus, grow us into prayer warriors who seek Your plan for our lives.

Position Equals Power

“Don’t let it go to your head.” A few did.

I’ve witnessed eleven United States presidents assume office. Some displayed conceit while others served humbly. One was assassinated and a few others almost were. Power corrupted a couple, and most sported gray hair when leaving office. But all had agendas which if elected they promised to enact.

President is the most powerful position, but even this office is limited by checks and balances. Congress passes laws, the president can veto them, Congress can override his veto, and the Supreme Court can declare them unconstitutional.

Since position normally determines power, we jockey for the most important ones: CEO, supervisor, manager, pope, priest, councilman, congressman, elder, teacher, principal, author, sports idol, etc. Some handle authority well while other let it go to their head.

God’s Word advocates a different position: Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves. (Philippians 2:3)

Humility is not devaluing ourselves but formulating an accurate assessment. When connected to Christ, we are forgiven of our sins and promoted to saint. Power comes with the position, but it’s not a self inflicted victory wound. We’re advanced by Christ’s blood and healed by his stripes.

Recognizing Christ’s responsibility for our position grows humility and prompts reevaluation of others. People are precious; as is forgiveness. God gives us the authority and command to intervene in other’s lives and empower them to excel. What are you waiting for?

Prayer:  Lord, remind us we are nothing without You but have enormous power in You. Empower us to enable others to rise to Your occasions.

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The Love Debt

There he was again. I saw him moving up quickly in my rearview mirror. A tail rider.

People who ride my bumper set me on edge. I know the law of stopping and speed. One car length for every ten miles per hour I’m traveling, but some people don’t honor it.

Riding me on a bad day may produce more than the jitters. My mind formulates forms of sign language to share when they finally go around. As they pass me, I distribute the sign language then realize I know them and what’s worse they know me-as a pastor, teacher, deacon, elder, school teacher, community leader, or whatever I am. Too late now, the damage is done. (By the way, I didn’t really do this, but like everyone else, I’m capable of it.)

Who said loving people was an easy debt to pay, but we’re required to: Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. (Romans 13:8)

Debt is taxing no matter how much we earn. Thirty year house mortgages, seven year car loans, “until I die” credit card payments. “I owe I owe so off to work I go” classifies most of us. But loving God, ourselves, and others are not debts we should try and settle. Like other liabilities we struggle with, love payments can be difficult. We’d rather use the money for something else, and sometimes we just don’t feel like making an installment at all.

Experiencing and understanding God’s love helps us love everyone regardless of whether we feel like it. And it fulfills God’s law. Let God give you a heart for others.

Prayer: All powerful God, enable us to love even the most difficult people.

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Building A Legacy

Due to his father’s untimely death, he never made it beyond sixth grade and had to assume control of the family farm at twelve. He never owned a new vehicle and worked on an ice cream truck until retiring at 72-earning more annually during retirement than while working.

My grandfather was known locally as a kind humble man who always carried a smile. He had little of the world’s goods but willingly shared with all. When I received the call telling me to come quickly, I knew I would soon lose not only a grandfather but a friend. His face brightened when I entered his room at the nursing home. Pointing upward, he said “I’m going home.” He soon left this world the way he came. Well almost. He bequeathed a spiritual legacy. 

Building legacies is important; erecting spiritual ones is more crucial. Moses told the Israelites; These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. (Deuteronomy 6:6-7) Solomon wrote; A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children. (Proverbs 13:22)

Legacies may include money and possessions, but greater good is built by obeying God’s commands, serving him faithfully and passing the baton to our children and grandchildren. Loving God absolutely lays the groundwork for honorable priorities and practices to bloom. Godly foundations are imperative if future generations are going to follow our example. 

Society’s gods can turn our attention from loving God supremely and passing the legacy. Maintaining our focus secures the foundation and builds a legacy for those who follow.

Prayer: Father on high, may loving and serving You be the legacy we perpetuate.
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First Things First

“Don’t put the cart before the horse.” It’s true. Carts don’t pull horses.

The saying doesn’t concern carriage rides but priorities. I’ve not always followed the advice. I think I know best for me so I tend to ignore advice conflicting with my wishes.

Like when my wife and I decided to purchase a house even though we didn’t have sufficient funds. We justified the decision because the price of gas was rising and we were driving seventy miles round trip to work. The process drove well initially but eventually hit enormous pot holes. I remember messaging my wife: “We need to pay attention to the stop signs.” So we did and cancelled the deal. Shortly thereafter we discovered the reason. God took us away from our jobs and the area.

John gives the correct order to ensure the horse is first: Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. (I John 4:11) Life is filled with important decisions and wonderful opportunities, but everything ethical in essence isn’t necessarily proper in practice. Owning a home is a wise investment; it just wasn’t right for us.

God loved us so much he allowed Jesus to die for our sins. Supreme love for him along with his guidance produces the right decisions and helps us engage only the opportunities he wants us to. There’s much good to do, but no one can do it all. Nor is life entirely about us. God loves everyone. Utmost love for him directs attention to other’s needs and challenges us to meet the ones God steers us to.

Love God first and others second, and your carriage will pull in the right sequence.

Prayer: Merciful Lord, may our decisions and actions stem from priorities honoring You.

Made By God

Strolling through the store, I picked them up one by one, searching for their origin.

Clothes made in Taiwan, the Philippines, Canada and the United States. Drinking glasses manufactured in China. Towels and washrags produced in Korea. In any retail store, the world is represented.

Having purchased items manufactured by countries worldwide, I’ve discovered quality is not identical. Pants made with cheaper cloth are normally too small while ones produced with higher quality cloth are sometimes too large. One manufacture guarantees their product for life while another offers a short warranty; two years is a lifetime.

Bodies have one manufacturer: Lord, you have been our dwelling place throughout all generations. (Psalm 90:1)

The tag in my shirt may read, “Made in America,” the one in my trousers “Made in China,” and the one on my undergarments “Made in Taiwan,” but my body tag reads “Made by God.” And a God of variety no less. Notice the various shapes, eye colors, hair colors, heights, noses, ears, and feet. (Who says God doesn’t have a sense of humor?)

“Made by God” entails uniqueness. Not the kind resulting in snooty attitudes but the type reminding us God’s acceptance is ultimately all that matters. There’s not another like you. DNA testing proves it. With the proper care, our bodies will last as long as God plans for them too. A relationship with him enacts a lifetime guarantee extending into eternity. Whatever God created you to be he constructed you to do. Discover what God has planned for you.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, enable us to fulfill Your purposes for our lives.
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