I punish the children for the sins of their parents to the third and fourth generations. Exodus 34:7 NLT
My wife and I
pass a particular church’s parking lot on the way to our church. We were once
affiliated with this church and remember when the parking lot and most of the seats inside were full. The music was awesome, and the preaching was vivacious.
New members joined regularly, and excitement filled the air.
Then, things
changed. Attendance declined to half as much, and an air of despondency filled
the sanctuary—not because of anything the current members had done, but
because of sin’s fallout effect. A leader—and a few members—chose to delve into
sin, and the entire church felt the effect.
I once thought
this verse was confusing . . . even unfair. Why should children and their
children suffer for something they didn’t do? Then I discovered a better
interpretation. God isn’t saying they are responsible for their relatives’ sins
but that they will feel the fallout from them.
Though I’m
responsible for my personal sins, rarely do they only affect me. Thousands of
children suffer physical and emotional ailments because their moms chose to use
dangerous substances while they were pregnant or because their parents chose to
berate them with emotionally damaging messages. Numerous spouses experience
irreparably ruined credit records due to poor decisions by an ex-spouse. And
many reputations suffer when the person themselves has no control over a bad
situation.
Since we’re
involved with others in some fashion, our closest associates will feel the
effects of our decisions. Choosing to sin is never just about us. Our sinful
choices will take us where we really don’t want to go—even though we think we
might. Additionally, we’ll carry others with us who don’t want to go but who
are carried along by association. And we’ll then keep them and ourselves longer
than we want to stay. Further, the cost can be astronomical.
While confessing
sin is crucial, it rarely removes the consequences of poor decisions.
Consequences are God’s reminders. Better yet is making a commitment to live a
pure life and walk in the power of the new nature God has given. When we do
this, we’ll experience less of sin’s fallout effect—and so will others close to
us.
Think of ways to
prevent sin’s fallout effect in your life.
Father, remind me
that my body is a temple of your Spirit and that I should present it to you as
a pure and holy sacrifice.
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